{"id":924,"date":"2007-02-14T11:00:00","date_gmt":"2007-02-14T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/chatteringmind\/2007\/02\/damned-with-too-much-praise.html"},"modified":"2007-02-14T11:00:00","modified_gmt":"2007-02-14T11:00:00","slug":"damned-with-too-much-praise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/chatteringmind\/2007\/02\/damned-with-too-much-praise.html","title":{"rendered":"Damned with Too Much Praise?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/nymag.com\/news\/features\/27840\/\" target=\"_new\">Here&#8217;s a good article <\/a>about how children who are praised too much sometimes grow up to be risk adverse. <\/p>\n<p>Remember to say, &#8220;Oh, I see you worked so hard on that! Tell me about it.&#8221; instead of &#8220;Cool! You&#8217;re sooo smart!&#8221; when your children show you their artwork.  <\/p>\n<p>Hard to do this sometimes, I know.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s a good article about how children who are praised too much sometimes grow up to be risk adverse. Remember to say, &#8220;Oh, I see you worked so hard on that! Tell me about it.&#8221; instead of &#8220;Cool! You&#8217;re sooo smart!&#8221; when your children show you their artwork. 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