{"id":799,"date":"2006-12-03T14:44:00","date_gmt":"2006-12-03T14:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/chatteringmind\/2006\/12\/why-santa-matters.html"},"modified":"2006-12-03T14:44:00","modified_gmt":"2006-12-03T14:44:00","slug":"why-santa-matters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/chatteringmind\/2006\/12\/why-santa-matters.html","title":{"rendered":"Why Santa Matters"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Here is the most beautiful description of why believing in something made-up and then not believing <\/em>in it is a wonderful part of growing up. What follows is from Betty Smith’s famous novel “A Tree Grows in Brooklyn”; <\/a> it was sent to me by “Urban Shaman” Donna Henes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In the passage an immigrant grandma, Mary Rommely, explains to her daughter, a young mother, how to raise a child. Mary reviews the importance of the Bible, and the need to read Shakespeare, fairy tales, and myths aloud to every child, then she adds this: <\/p>\n

“Oh, and you must not forget the Kris Kringle. The child must believe in him until she reaches the age of six.”<\/p>\n

“Mother, I know there are no ghosts or fairies. I would be teaching the child foolish lies.”<\/p>\n

Mary spoke sharply. “You do not know whether there are not ghosts on earth or angels in heaven.”<\/p>\n

“I know<\/span> there is no Santa Claus.” <\/p>\n

“Yet, you must teach the child that these things are so.”<\/p>\n

“Why? When I, myself, do not believe?”<\/p>\n

“Because,” explained Mary Rommely simply, “the child must have a valuable thing which is called imagination. The child must have a secret world in which live things that never were. It is necessary that she believe.<\/span> She must start out believing in things not of this world. Then when the world becomes too ugly for living in, the child can reach back and live in her imagination. I, myself, even in this day and at my age, have great need of recalling the miraculous lives of the Saints and the great miracles that have come to pass on earth. Only by having these things in my mind can I live beyond what I have<\/span> to live for.”<\/p>\n

“The child will grow up and find out things for herself. She will know that I lied. She will be disappointed.”<\/p>\n

“That is what is called learning the truth. It is a good thing to learn the truth one’s self. To first believe with all your heart, and then not to believe, is good too. It fattens the emotions and makes them to stretch. When as a woman’s life and people disappoint her, she will have had practice in disappointment and it will not come so hard. In teaching your child, do not forget that suffering is good too. It makes a person rich in character.”<\/p>\n

Heartbreaking wisdom, isn’t is?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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