{"id":766,"date":"2006-11-15T14:15:00","date_gmt":"2006-11-15T14:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/chatteringmind\/2006\/11\/how-do-you-stay-sane-during-holidays.html"},"modified":"2006-11-15T14:15:00","modified_gmt":"2006-11-15T14:15:00","slug":"how-do-you-stay-sane-during-holidays","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/chatteringmind\/2006\/11\/how-do-you-stay-sane-during-holidays.html","title":{"rendered":"How Do You Stay Sane During Holidays?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/media.beliefnet.com\/imgs\/tout\/story\/candleimageholistic.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:right;margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand;width: 150px\" src=\"https:\/\/media.beliefnet.com\/imgs\/tout\/story\/candleimageholistic.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>I didn&#8217;t marry until I was 36, so I had about 15 years of heartache-y holidays&#8211;alone, unprotected, and bummed that nobody loved me. 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