{"id":745,"date":"2006-11-03T18:22:00","date_gmt":"2006-11-03T18:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/chatteringmind\/2006\/11\/ted-haggards-shadow-reveals-itself.html"},"modified":"2006-11-03T18:22:00","modified_gmt":"2006-11-03T18:22:00","slug":"ted-haggards-shadow-reveals-itself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/chatteringmind\/2006\/11\/ted-haggards-shadow-reveals-itself.html","title":{"rendered":"Ted Haggard&#8217;s Shadow Reveals Itself?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We don&#8217;t really know yet which charges against Ted Haggard are true or false, but it&#8217;s impossible to watch the unfolding of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/story\/203\/story_20310_1.html\" target=\"_new\"> the evangelical pastor&#8217;s alleged gay sex scandal<\/a> without thinking of <a href=\"http:\/\/psikoloji.fisek.com.tr\/jung\/shadow.htm\" target=\"_new\">Carl Jung&#8217;s writings on &#8220;shadow&#8221;<\/a>&#8211;the least acknowledged or examined parts of the self&#8211;and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/author\/author_153.html\" target=\"_new\">Ken Wilber&#8217;s <\/a> belief in the importance of shadow integration for personal growth. For both, the essential idea is <strong>what you repress and hate most, you are.<\/strong> And if you don&#8217;t &#8220;own&#8221; your shadow, and raise it into your conscious, waking life you&#8217;re going to get busted in one way or another! <\/p>\n<p>A shadow can be a hidden power&#8211;like when a timid woman feels she can&#8217;t get angry, or when a kind-hearted man can&#8217;t be assertive. It can be anything you disown in yourself or find yourself hating in others. In fact, <strong>what you find yourself hating most in the outer world is always a tip-off<\/strong>; this is an area where your psyche could use, as they say, &#8220;a little work.&#8221; Jung himself said, &#8220;Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.&#8221; It almost seems like Shakespeare had anti-gay gay Christians in mind when he wrote: &#8220;The lady doth protest too much, methinks.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Based on the allegations we&#8217;re gathering about the clash between Ted Haggard&#8217;s day job and personal life, I&#8217;d say he may be getting caught with his shadow showing. Too bad <a href=\"http:\/\/images.google.com\/imgres?imgurl=http:\/\/www.jashford.com\/Media\/jung1.jpg&amp;imgrefurl=http:\/\/www.jashford.com\/Pages\/psychejungquotes.html&amp;h=288&amp;w=229&amp;sz=45&amp;hl=en&amp;start=2&amp;tbnid=xiZ_TMkhFMdnjM:&amp;tbnh=115&amp;tbnw=91&amp;prev=\/images%3Fq%3Dcarl%2Bjung%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26ie%3DUTF-8%26oe%3DISO-8859-1%26sa%3DN\" target=\"_new\">Carl Jung&#8217;s<\/a> not available for appointments today, but I&#8217;m sure that if any of the recent allegations are true, the reverend will quickly find the help he needs to bring <strong>all of his personalities<\/strong> to the dinner table.<\/p>\n<p>Stay strong, Ted, and take heart! The aching need for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0062507540\/ref=pd_bxgy_text_b\/104-6849591-7527962?%5Fencoding=UTF8\" target=\"_new\">shadow integration <\/a> has been the theme of virtually all great works of literature from <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Oedipus-Rex-Dover-Thrift-Editions\/dp\/0486268772\/sr=8-1\/qid=1162571569\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/104-7638272-0731123?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books\" target=\"_new\">&#8220;Oedipus Rex,&#8221;<\/a> to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wakefield.org\/pleasureisland\/attractions\/61-moby.jpg\" target=\"_new\">&#8220;Moby Dick,&#8221;<\/a> to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Great-Gatsby-F-Scott-Fitzgerald\/dp\/0743273567\/sr=8-1\/qid=1162571653\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1\/104-7638272-0731123?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books\" target=\"_new\">&#8220;The Great Gatsby,&#8221;<\/a> and even <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Peter_Pan\" target=\"_new\">&#8220;Peter Pan.&#8221; <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We don&#8217;t really know yet which charges against Ted Haggard are true or false, but it&#8217;s impossible to watch the unfolding of the evangelical pastor&#8217;s alleged gay sex scandal without thinking of Carl Jung&#8217;s writings on &#8220;shadow&#8221;&#8211;the least acknowledged or examined parts of the self&#8211;and Ken Wilber&#8217;s belief in the importance of shadow integration for&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-745","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-best-of-chattering-mind"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Ted Haggard&#039;s Shadow Reveals Itself? 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