{"id":541,"date":"2006-08-02T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2006-08-02T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/chatteringmind\/2006\/08\/how-to-get-good-bodywork.html"},"modified":"2006-08-02T12:00:00","modified_gmt":"2006-08-02T12:00:00","slug":"how-to-get-good-bodywork","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/chatteringmind\/2006\/08\/how-to-get-good-bodywork.html","title":{"rendered":"How to Get Good Bodywork"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/media.beliefnet.com\/imgs\/tout\/story\/thaiprivilege.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:right;margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand;width: 200px\" src=\"https:\/\/media.beliefnet.com\/imgs\/tout\/story\/thaiprivilege.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>Thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailycandy.com\/article.jsp?ArticleId=26655&amp;city=4\" target=\"_new\">Daily Candy <\/a> for informing me of the grand opening of a new <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thaiprivilegespa.com\/english\/products.asp\" target=\"_new\">Thai Privilege Spa<\/a> in downtown Manhattan. It sounds incredible. The photos of models on massage tables at the Bangkok-based company&#8217;s other facilities are sexy and lush.<\/p>\n<p>In truth, I rather dislike these sorts of places. Whenever I&#8217;ve gone&#8211;on assignment for magazines mostly&#8211;I&#8217;ve laid there thinking about the money I&#8217;m spending. Anxiety mounts as I ponder other questions: Should I have refreshed my toe-nail polish at home before coming? How much will I tip? Will they let me nap for ten minutes after my session, or are they going to roll me out the purple-painted door, clang me past the wind chimes, and sell me (vulnerable and wilted from treatment) overpriced essential oils at the cash register?<\/p>\n<p>True, fancy spas educate an opinion-leading clientele, help worthy mind-body therapies get better established, and employ talented bodyworkers. But every time I&#8217;ve spoken frankly to someone employed by a high-end spa or health club, they say: &#8220;Well, you never really get to <em>go deep<\/em>.&#8221; By which they mean that <em>not much life-altering change occurs<\/em>. Oftentimes, they get only one chance to help a customer (since the client is usually traveling through town or just looking for a one-time feel-good experience). <\/p>\n<p>If you want intimacy, if you want to get out of pain, it is best to find a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.massagetherapy.com\/find\/index.php\" target=\"_new\">massage therapist,<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.aoa-net.org\/index.cfm\" target=\"_new\">osteopath<\/a>, or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.chiroweb.com\/locator\/\" target=\"_new\">chiropractor<\/a> you can relate to and afford to visit monthly, someone who will remember your name and your issues and say, &#8220;Well, how&#8217;s the shoulder doing? Did the last treatment help?&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you can find a talented massage therapist not long out of school who needs additional work experience and thereby charges less. Then you can really talk about what&#8217;s working, and what&#8217;s not. Additionally, you and a friend (or partner) could take <a href=\"http:\/\/www.eomega.org\/omega\/workshops\/e2fa27cbe90b68c27b8c1c9dd0157889\/\" target=\"_new\">a workshop<\/a> in massage to learn how to practice on each other. Nightly massage is always best!<\/p>\n<p>Yoga teachers and directors of yoga studios know where to find reliable massage therapists and high quality workshops. And the more yoga you do, the less bodywork you&#8217;ll need since yoga postures have a way of eventually aligning every muscle of your body. <\/p>\n<p>Tell me: Are you wed to a particular style of bodywork? What were your most transformative experiences?<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;padding-bottom:0.25em\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thanks to Daily Candy for informing me of the grand opening of a new Thai Privilege Spa in downtown Manhattan. It sounds incredible. The photos of models on massage tables at the Bangkok-based company&#8217;s other facilities are sexy and lush. In truth, I rather dislike these sorts of places. 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