{"id":42,"date":"2005-11-22T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2005-11-22T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/chatteringmind\/2005\/11\/at-the-service-station.html"},"modified":"2005-11-22T12:00:00","modified_gmt":"2005-11-22T12:00:00","slug":"at-the-service-station","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/chatteringmind\/2005\/11\/at-the-service-station.html","title":{"rendered":"At the Service Station"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div>\n<p>My husband and I will be driving up to western Massachusetts with the kids tomorrow for the holiday. So today I prepared for the trip by taking my car in to have the oil changed. Also, for the past six days, a strange little light has flashed insistently on the dashboard. It looks like a neon drawing of a radiant sun, but the sun has a tiny, fervent exclamation point placed inside it. Hmmm&#8230;the sun shining with urgency. Global warming? Can&#8217;t be. Indeed, the car&#8217;s guidebook informed me that what I had was a brake light problem.  <\/p>\n<p>So after my usual school drop-off, I took the car in to see Henry, our local automobile man. When Henry saw me, he gave me a puzzled little grin. At that moment, Chattering Mind, having focused on nothing but breakfast and loading the kids&#8217; backpacks into the trunk, realized that my hat was on lopsided and I was wearing narrow eyeglasses that could be seen as kooky. And even though Henry couldn&#8217;t see my lower body from where he was standing, I knew I was also wearing billowy red cotton trousers under my top and long coat, pants I had actually slept in last night that would be appropriate for an audition at the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bigapplecircus.org\/Home\/\" target=\"_new\">Big Apple Circus<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Henry!&#8221; I say, taking my hat and glasses off, and running one hand through my hair. &#8220;Hi, I&#8217;m feeling a little disorganized. I came in here for an oil change for tomorrow&#8217;s drive, but now I see there&#8217;s a light on that indicates a problem with the brake lights.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Okay,&#8221; Henry says. &#8220;We&#8217;ll take a look.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And also, oh!&#8221; I remember an additional, previously unacknowledged problem: &#8220;Be careful, because the alarm system beeper is broken where it attaches to the key chain and you could lose the beeper. It just falls off.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Henry squints at my key chain and picks it up.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh, I can fix that,&#8221; he says, staring at the torn hole where the beeper attaches. &#8220;Do you want me to?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Well, sure,&#8221; I say happily. &#8220;I thought I was going to have to get a new one from the dealer.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No, I can fix that with some wire and a little epoxy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh, would you? You&#8217;d really do that?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Such a small favor. 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