{"id":381,"date":"2006-05-22T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2006-05-22T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/chatteringmind\/2006\/05\/the-dangers-of-multitasking.html"},"modified":"2006-05-22T12:00:00","modified_gmt":"2006-05-22T12:00:00","slug":"the-dangers-of-multitasking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/chatteringmind\/2006\/05\/the-dangers-of-multitasking.html","title":{"rendered":"The Dangers of Multi-tasking"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/media.beliefnet.com\/imgs\/tout\/story\/eggs.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:right;margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand;width: 200px\" src=\"https:\/\/media.beliefnet.com\/imgs\/tout\/story\/eggs.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>We know we <em>should<\/em> do one thing at a time. When chopping onions, for instance, it&#8217;s best to chop with the whole mind, and not talk on the phone or listen to the radio. We also know it&#8217;s best to dispense with all those &#8220;shoulds&#8221; hanging around&#8211;they don&#8217;t uplift us, do they? No, &#8220;shoulds&#8221; tear us down. <\/p>\n<p>But I <em>should<\/em> not have cooked seven organic eggs in water over a flame for seven hours last night. I could have done some serious harm. Where was my head? I&#8217;ll tell you where: I was cleaning the kitchen, watching the tail-end of the &#8220;The Sopranos,&#8221; and making a list of things to do, all at the same time. Then, in hopes of getting ahead on the packing of Monday&#8217;s lunch for the boys, I thought at ten pm (just before checking my email) that a serving of egg salad in each thermos would be nice. How smart of me to start the project then! And when I lit the flame under the pot, I actually thought: <em>mustn&#8217;t forget. <\/em>Then I did. And I awoke this morning a little before five to the most peculiar charcoal smell. What? Was my neighbor at his barbeque at this hour? <\/p>\n<p>Strange how the mind works. Or fails to stay present until called to clean up a large mess. Thank goodness <a href=\"http:\/\/www.webmd.com\/content\/article\/118\/112811.htm\" target=\"_new\">I&#8217;d gotten rid of all my Teflon pans<\/a>. The fumes from an overnight burn like that would have <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lisashea.com\/petinfo\/questions\/a455\" target=\"_new\">killed our parakeets<\/a> for sure. But the flame on last night&#8217;s pot was on so low that the fumes never even stirred our smoke alarm. But now, I&#8217;ve got charred Farberware, and exploded egg shards on the floor, refrigerator, and kitchen walls. And there&#8217;s a burned egg smell deep in the rugs. My hands and hair smell like smoke even now.  <\/p>\n<p>The lessons: Wake up, and then, once your reality is fathomed, hold no shame. I initially thought, &#8216;Oh, my readers needn&#8217;t know everything. A blogger covering  meditative practice &#8220;should&#8221; be more aware, right?&#8217; But then I found a whole series of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mothering.com\/discussions\/showthread.php?t=428313\" target=\"_new\">blog posts written by people who&#8217;ve burned their hard-boiled eggs down to nothing <\/a>too! So I am not alone. My pal Laura, who cooks all the time, says, &#8220;Once you burn eggs, you&#8217;ll never burn them again.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Do you multi-task? Teachers as varied as <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0834800799\/104-7638272-0731123?v=glance&amp;n=283155\" target=\"_new\">Shunryu Suzuki<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.time.com\/time\/archive\/preview\/0,10987,1147162,00.html\" target=\"_new\">Suze Orman<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/http:\/\/www.schooloftheseasons.com\/about.html\" target=\"_new\">Waverly Fitzgerald<\/a> believe life is best savored one moment, one task, at a time. Can you go a week driving the car without the radio? Can you knit without music or TV? Can you walk without a cell phone at your ear? Can you shake a person&#8217;s hand without worrying how you look?<\/p>\n<p><i>Photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/flickr.com\/people\/geishaboy500\/\" target=\"_new\">geishaboy500<\/a><\/i><\/p>\n<div style=\"clear:both;padding-bottom:0.25em\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We know we should do one thing at a time. 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