{"id":311,"date":"2006-04-19T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2006-04-19T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/chatteringmind\/2006\/04\/appreciating-the-lives-of-the.html"},"modified":"2006-04-19T12:00:00","modified_gmt":"2006-04-19T12:00:00","slug":"appreciating-the-lives-of-the","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/chatteringmind\/2006\/04\/appreciating-the-lives-of-the.html","title":{"rendered":"Appreciating the Lives of the Dead"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"clear:both\"><\/div>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;If we have lost someone we love, we must be able to raise ourselves to a feeling of thankfulness that we have had him; we must be able to think selflessly of what he was to us until his death, and not of what we feel, now that we have him no more. 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