{"id":132,"date":"2010-12-14T09:37:34","date_gmt":"2010-12-14T09:37:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/catholicsmediaandculture\/2010\/12\/tears-of-joy-when-politicians-cry-and-media-double-standards.html"},"modified":"2010-12-14T09:37:34","modified_gmt":"2010-12-14T09:37:34","slug":"tears-of-joy-when-politicians-cry-and-media-double-standards","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/catholicsmediaandculture\/2010\/12\/tears-of-joy-when-politicians-cry-and-media-double-standards.html","title":{"rendered":"Tears of Joy: When politicians cry and media double standards"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Blatant double standards by media personalities continually amaze me. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=h8k9RsrRtYo\">Joy Behar got on incoming House Speaker John Boehner&#8217;s case<\/a> for tearing up (again) during an interview with Leslie Stahl on <i>60 Minutes<\/i>. Stahl had asked Boehner about his, by now well-known, proclivity to turn on the waterworks in public. Behar&#8217;s comments followed a clip of the <i>60 Minutes <\/i>exchange that went like this:<\/p>\n<p><i><b>Boehner:<\/b> I can&#8217;t go to a school anymore. I see a lot of schools. I see all these little kids running around. I can&#8217;t talk about it.<\/p>\n<p><b>Stahl:<\/b> Why?<\/p>\n<p><b>Boehner<\/b>: Making sure that these kids have a shot at the American dream &#8212; like I did. That&#8217;s important. (He cries.)<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Back to the studio. Renowned psychiatrist Barbara Walters declares <i>&#8220;This guy has an emotional problem, that anytime he talks about anything that&#8217;s not &#8216;raise taxes&#8217; he cries.&#8221; <\/i>Then, of course, there was the expected stuff about imagining if outgoing Speaker Nancy Pelosi cried in public and the supposed double standard there would be in the reaction. <\/p>\n<p>Needless to say, Joy found Barbara&#8217;s diagnosis and comments to be both hysterical and astute before then chiming in with an observation of her own:<\/p>\n<p><i><b>Behar: <\/b>It&#8217;s interesting to watch him cry because I&#8217;ve been watching him now. We call him the &#8220;Weeper of the House.&#8221; He cries only when he talks about how sad <u>his<\/u> life was. He had to sweep floors. He was a janitor. And he pursued the &#8220;American Dream.&#8221; And yet he has very little empathy for people who are in that position now.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p><\/i>Behar may have been <i>watching<\/i> Boehner cry but she obviously wasn&#8217;t listening the clip that played just moments earlier. Say what you want about what the weeping says about the man&#8217;s ability to check his emotions at the House door but, if anything, that exchange with Leslie Stahl reveals a man of extreme empathy. He was talking about his deep desire to put forth policies that he believes will give today&#8217;s kids the same shot at success that he had. <\/p>\n<p>Behar may not approve of those policies but her assessment of Boehner was clearly contradicted by that clip.<\/p>\n<p>Now to the real double standard. Compare Behar&#8217;s reaction to Boehner&#8217;s tears to her take on Hillary Clinton&#8217;s emotional moment during the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=6qgWH89qWks\">New Hampshire primary campaig<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=6qgWH89qWks\">n<\/a> a couple years back. At that point in time, she criticized the media for focusing on HIllary&#8217;s moment <a href=\"http:\/\/dailycaller.com\/2010\/12\/13\/the-view-hosts-make-fun-of-boehner-for-crying-in-60-minutes-segment-but-told-the-media-to-lay-off-of-hillary-clintons-crying-moment-in-2008\/\">this way<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p><i><b>Behar:<\/b> How many times do we have to see Hillary choking up? I mean, don&#8217;t we have<br \/>\nanything else to watch? Every one of these men have had the moment of verklemptness. We don&#8217;t have it on a loop like poor Hillary.&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Predictably, she immediately took back the &#8220;poor Hillary&#8221; part of her analysis &#8212; noting that Hillary is, in fact, tough and <i>&#8220;took on (Tim) Russert yesterday like a gladiator.&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>BTW, both <a href=\"http:\/\/www.timesonline.co.uk\/tol\/news\/world\/us_and_americas\/us_elections\/article3160177.ece\">exit polling and Hillary Clinton herself<\/a>, suggested that her <i>&#8220;verklempt&#8221;&nbsp; <\/i>moment (far from damaging her politically) played a key role in propelling her to win the New Hampshire primary.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Now my own <i>view<\/i> is that I think Boehner&#8217;s tendency toward tears is sincere (unless he&#8217;s a very good actor) and represents the kind of heartfelt belief in the American Dream that I would like to see more of in our politicians. Personally, I&#8217;m tired of cynicism whether it be in Hollywood or Washington.<\/p>\n<p>But, while I think an emotional Speaker of the House is okay. would I want to see Boehner as President?&nbsp; Probably not. It&#8217;s like Dr. McCoy&#8217;s emotion served a purpose on <i>Star Trek<\/i> but you really wanted Capt. Kirk at the helm of the Enterprise. Right now, we&#8217;ve got Spock in the captain&#8217;s chair which doesn&#8217;t quite work either.&nbsp; &nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>But I digress. Back to my point. Would there have been a double standard if current House Speaker Pelosi was the one welling up on <i>60 Minutes<\/i> and not John Boehner? Almost undoubtedly yes. At least on<i> The View<\/i>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Blatant double standards by media personalities continually amaze me. Joy Behar got on incoming House Speaker John Boehner&#8217;s case for tearing up (again) during an interview with Leslie Stahl on 60 Minutes. 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