{"id":208,"date":"2008-07-18T13:35:04","date_gmt":"2008-07-18T13:35:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/castingstones\/2008\/07\/clergy-spouses-spice.html"},"modified":"2008-07-18T13:35:04","modified_gmt":"2008-07-18T13:35:04","slug":"clergy-spouses-spice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/castingstones\/2008\/07\/clergy-spouses-spice.html","title":{"rendered":"clergy spouses (spice?)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The bishops&#8217; spouses meeting (and, no, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sfgate.com\/cgi-bin\/article.cgi?f=\/n\/a\/2008\/06\/08\/national\/a055310D31.DTL&amp;tsp=1\">Mark Andrew <\/a>is not there) has gotten some <a href=\"http:\/\/www.episcopalchurch.org\/79901_99046_ENG_HTM.htm\">news attention <\/a>&#8211; perhaps because Lambeth itself seems low-key so far.  I have often thought that there is little I would rather do less than be a bishop, but likely being married to a bishop is just as hard, if not harder.<br \/>\nIn fact, many clerical spouses feel isolated, and presumably bishops&#8217; spouses may feel even more isolated, so this spouses&#8217; gathering is likely very welcome indeed.  Clerical spouses live in an interesting moment &#8211; are you still expected to head up the women&#8217;s auxiliary and chair an annual tea\/junk sale\/silent auction?  Which is to say &#8211; do churches still think they are hiring two people for the price of one when they hire a married cleric?  My sense, even in the South where things change more slowly, is that the role of clergy spouse is very much in transition, for two obvious reasons:  many clergy wives have full-time jobs, and many &#8220;clergy wives&#8221; are men.<br \/>\nBy the way, Gene Robinson is not the only person promoting a book in England this week.  Jane Williams, who is married to Rowan Williams, has a new title, too:  <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Marriage-Mitres-Being-Myself-Williams\/dp\/0281060185\">Marriage, Mitres, and Being Myself<\/a><\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The bishops&#8217; spouses meeting (and, no, Mark Andrew is not there) has gotten some news attention &#8211; perhaps because Lambeth itself seems low-key so far. 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