{"id":8385,"date":"2016-05-02T09:55:39","date_gmt":"2016-05-02T13:55:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/?p=8385"},"modified":"2016-05-02T11:58:56","modified_gmt":"2016-05-02T15:58:56","slug":"love-brings-up-anything-unlike-itself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/2016\/05\/love-brings-up-anything-unlike-itself.html","title":{"rendered":"Love Brings Up Anything Unlike Itself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve heard it said many times that love brings up anything unlike it self for the purpose of healing and release. \u00a0I also say that love is like a laxative, since is stirs up a lot of sh*t. The first time those words landed in my brain was back in my 20&#8217;s when I was involved with the<a href=\"http:\/\/rebirthingbreathwork.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"> Rebirthing<\/a> community and had taken the LRT -Loving Relationships Training. It was quite a revelation for this young woman who only saw light and shied away from anything remotely shadowy. I was grateful to have grown up in a family in which love ruled supreme. Not overt addictions, traumas and dramas, unlike many I have encountered over the years. As I look at those who are part of my life now, many are survivors of those dynamics. I seem to attract resilient thrivers who have risen above the pain and don&#8217;t allow the darkness to engulf them for long. I have witnessed them struggle at times with their demons and dance with them at others. I have marveled at the remarkable courage it has taken for them to elevate themselves out of the muck and mire.<\/p>\n<p>One of the pitfalls of being in multiple roles in my life as therapist, family and friend to folks who emerged from the shadow realms is that I have tended to minimize mine. Who me, angry, sad, scared, lonely? \u00a0Because I was born into this human existence, I too have experienced loss and pain. I have buried those emotions under layers of justification that because I have solid supports and resources that I &#8216;should&#8217; be able to deal with them. The illusion that if I minimize their impact on my life, I will somehow dis-empower them. The opposite seems to be true. What we resist, persists. Imagine a beach ball that you attempt to hold under water. How long can you keep it submerged until your arms get tired? When you release it, it pops back up.<\/p>\n<p>I have been experiencing a flood of emotions lately as I am immersed in love soup every day. Finally allowing myself to be fully human with messy feelings that I have squelched in the service of making things &#8216;look good&#8217; and that I &#8216;have it all together.&#8217; This came up yesterday in a workshop I was in. What if I could be authentic and just friggin&#8217; acknowledge the spectrum of it all? What if I could simply allow? What if? Tears and laughter abound in my life. I am far more at ease with the latter, rather than the former. It is when I am willing to be nakedly open and vulnerable in sharing those aspects of myself that I too rise above the water line.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve heard it said many times that love brings up anything unlike it self for the purpose of healing and release. \u00a0I also say that love is like a laxative, since is stirs up a lot of sh*t. 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