{"id":7664,"date":"2015-05-26T18:50:34","date_gmt":"2015-05-26T22:50:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/?p=7664"},"modified":"2015-05-26T18:50:34","modified_gmt":"2015-05-26T22:50:34","slug":"you-are-what-you-choose-to-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/2015\/05\/you-are-what-you-choose-to-be.html","title":{"rendered":"You Are What You Choose To Be"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, I heard this Jackson Browne classic called The Fuse\u00a0that was the perfect prelude to an interview I had with Beth Long who is the editor of Doylestown Hospital&#8217;s news letter. She and I had last had a sit down conversation right before Thanksgiving. The topic back then was my feeling of gratitude that I had experienced a heart attack, since it turned my life around in as yet unimaginable ways. Today, as I approach the one year &#8216;cardio-versary&#8217; on June 12th, she wanted to do\u00a0a follow up to see how I was progressing.<\/p>\n<p>What came to me so powerfully is that I make conscious choices each day about my heart health. It isn&#8217;t just about diet and fitness routines, although I do adhere to them. It is more connected with the emotional heart stuff that had me offering care for others when I wanted it myself. It is about deciding how and with whom I will invest my time and energy. Instead of doing things because I am expected to, I do them when they serve me as well. Ongoing self sacrifice can be depleting.<\/p>\n<p>One of my favorite lines from the song I referenced is &#8220;Forget what life used to be. You are what you choose to be.&#8221; It is another way of saying that your history is not your destiny. We are always presented with options to consider. I am no longer on auto pilot. I ask myself sometimes moment by moment, what it is I want to do and how it will be of benefit to myself and those I encounter.<\/p>\n<p>Are you living from the past? Do you see yourself as being simply a product of your experiences, rather than your conscious choices of which way to turn on the path on which you are walking?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s whatever it is you see that life will become.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/youtu.be\/D_Ae75dJI1M<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, I heard this Jackson Browne classic called The Fuse\u00a0that was the perfect prelude to an interview I had with Beth Long who is the editor of Doylestown Hospital&#8217;s news letter. She and I had last had a sit down conversation right before Thanksgiving. 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