{"id":6327,"date":"2014-04-08T11:18:22","date_gmt":"2014-04-08T15:18:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/?p=6327"},"modified":"2014-04-08T11:18:22","modified_gmt":"2014-04-08T15:18:22","slug":"legacy-ewein","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/2014\/04\/legacy-ewein.html","title":{"rendered":"Legacy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/files\/2014\/04\/richamyandashley.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6318 aligncenter\" alt=\"richamyandashley\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/107\/2014\/04\/richamyandashley-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There are some people who get into your bone marrow and decades later, remain with you.\u00a0 When I met Rich Foster along with his wife Gina at Glassboro State College in the late 1970&#8217;s, I was\u00a0at Together, Inc. which was a counseling center where many of my friends worked. A motley crew of creative souls, who have experienced weddings, divorces, births, deaths and illnesses in the interceding years, we are part of each other&#8217;s lives to this day.<\/p>\n<p>On April 6th, 1990, an event occurred that in an instant, changed the course of the lives of Gina, Amy and Ashley Foster and countless members of the &#8216;family of choice&#8217; circles of which Rich was a part. On his favorite mode of transportation (a bicycle), heading to work, he was struck and killed.<\/p>\n<p>Hard to imagine that this pony-tailed, brown eyed soul was taken. He was generous and kind, funny as hell,\u00a0and could fix stuff, including having a gift for patching up broken hearts. A consummate hugger, Rich embraced life with the same enthusiasm. I enjoyed our conversations about life, the Universe and everything. Their home was a gathering place and once a month (if memory serves), they hosted a house concert where music resonated off the rafters of the high ceilinged farm house in Sewell, NJ.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/files\/2014\/04\/richginaandamyfoster1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-6330\" alt=\"richginaandamyfoster\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/107\/2014\/04\/richginaandamyfoster1-219x300.jpg\" width=\"219\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After he died, I had a dream in which we were sitting in a booth in a diner and I could clearly see a mini jukebox at the table. Can&#8217;t remember which song was playing, but I remember laughing a lot. His presence reassured me that he was safe and well.<\/p>\n<p>When Amy married Steve, there wasn&#8217;t a dry eye in the house\u00a0as\u00a0the elegantly clad and coiffed\u00a0Gina and the angelic Amy did the parent-child dance. I clearly sensed that Rich completed the circle with them as they gracefully moved across the floor. Amy now has two children and Ashley will soon be a mama. I&#8217;m sure that Rich is beaming at the legacy those who love him continue to carry on.<\/p>\n<p>Rich, I bless the man that you were and the soul you will always be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are some people who get into your bone marrow and decades later, remain with you.\u00a0 When I met Rich Foster along with his wife Gina at Glassboro State College in the late 1970&#8217;s, I was\u00a0at Together, Inc. which was a counseling center where many of my friends worked. 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