{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"The Bliss Blog","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog","author_name":"Edie Weinstein, MSW, LSW","author_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/author\/eweinstein","title":"Bully vs. Ally - The Bliss Blog","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"XpAEXmhSc5\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/2013\/03\/bully-vs-ally.html\">Bully vs. Ally<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blissblog\/2013\/03\/bully-vs-ally.html\/embed#?secret=XpAEXmhSc5\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Bully vs. Ally&#8221; &#8212; The Bliss Blog\" data-secret=\"XpAEXmhSc5\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"&nbsp; Tonight in my job as a therapist in a drug and alcohol oupatient treatment center, I facilitated my weekly Women&#8217;s Group. The topic of negative self talk came up and the ways in which it sabotagued their successes and undermined their wellbeing. Some had habitual gloom and doom thoughts,\u00a0envisioning the worst possible outcome. That&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/s3.amazonaws.com\/everystockphoto\/fspid31\/15\/96\/27\/7\/taunting-teasing-gossip-1596277-m.jpg"}