{"id":168,"date":"2013-06-21T12:26:31","date_gmt":"2013-06-21T12:26:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/blessingsabound\/?p=168"},"modified":"2013-06-21T12:28:13","modified_gmt":"2013-06-21T12:28:13","slug":"the-blessing-of-grandparents-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/blessingsabound\/2013\/06\/the-blessing-of-grandparents-2.html","title":{"rendered":"The Blessing of Grandparents"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Something yesterday made me think of my grandparents.\u00a0 <\/span>They\u2019re both on the other side now and I\u2019m sure they\u2019re watching me and guarding me and loving me as much as ever.<\/p>\n

My grandparents were among the generation that still looked like grandparents.\u00a0 <\/span>They didn\u2019t feel the need to look younger than they were.\u00a0 <\/span>My grandmother always wore dresses (down to her knees, of course,) never pants.\u00a0 <\/span>She wore glasses and curled her short gray hair in pin curls.\u00a0 <\/span>She was plump (like any respectable grandmother back in those days.)\u00a0 <\/span>She had rosy cheeks.<\/p>\n

My grandfather wore baggy trousers, never ever jeans.\u00a0 <\/span>He often wore plaid shirts.\u00a0 <\/span>On holidays he wore sweater vests.\u00a0 <\/span>He had glasses and he was balding and he smoked a pipe.\u00a0 <\/span>He was often sitting reading the paper, or Newsweek, or the Bible, which he would read from cover to cover, bless his heart, plowing through even Leviticus, Numbers, and Deuteronomy.<\/p>\n

\"Probably<\/a><\/p>\n

Grandpop – Harry Jamison Greb, with my father.<\/p>\n

In his later years, Grandpop was cold even in the summer.\u00a0 <\/span>He\u2019d even wear long johns under his pants.\u00a0 <\/span>Meanwhile, my grandmother suffered from the heat.\u00a0 <\/span>In the hottest and most humid days of summer, she\u2019d walk around in her slip and she\u2019d have the air conditioner on.\u00a0 <\/span>I remember kissing many a sweaty cheek.\u00a0 <\/span>I can still picture beads of perspiration above her mouth.\u00a0 <\/span>She always smelled of powder.<\/p>\n

My grandmother taught me how to make jam.\u00a0 <\/span>I stood with her in the small steamy kitchen while she loaded the sugar into the strawberries cooking on the stove. (I couldn\u2019t believe how much sugar!)\u00a0 <\/span>She loved her sweets.\u00a0 <\/span>I would watch, astounded, while she put teaspoon after teaspoon after teaspoon of sugar into her tea.\u00a0 <\/span>And she always had a pretty dish with candy in it on the coffee table \u2013 usually the jellied, sugar-ccoated kind \u2013 like spearmint leaves or orange jellies.\u00a0 <\/span>It was for us, of course, but I\u2019m sure she enjoyed her share when we weren\u2019t there.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Grandmom always gave me something to take home every single time I visited.\u00a0 <\/span>It could be a plant, or some photographs, or something in the house that caught my eye.\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>Among my most cherished possessions are old photographs of ancestors which I\u2019d found in a big paper bag, and her diamond ring and wedding ring, which she left me in her will.\u00a0 <\/span>(Diamond is my birthstone.)<\/p>\n

\"ancestors<\/a><\/p>\n

They lived on Grandpop\u2019s social security check.\u00a0 <\/span>Grandmom, like most women of her generation, never worked outside the home.\u00a0 <\/span>She cooked, cleaned, did laundry, and raised her children, but never knew the pleasure of a paycheck.\u00a0 <\/span>They had three children and thirteen grandchildren.\u00a0 <\/span>Every birthday, we\u2019d get a card from them with five dollars in it.\u00a0 <\/span>It may seem like a minute amount, but for people with so little income, it was very sweet.<\/p>\n

\"Doris<\/a><\/p>\n

My grandmother, Doris Christiana Lunger Greb,<\/p>\n

with my father.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>One of the things I loved about Grandpop was how he would often ask our opinions about things like world events or philosophical issues.\u00a0 <\/span>I felt respected when he would ask what we thought.\u00a0 <\/span>Also, I loved that he loved to garden and I loved that he would call us sometimes and say, \u201cGo outside right now.\u00a0 <\/span>There\u2019s a gorgeous sunset.\u201d<\/p>\n

Whenever any of my siblings or I would go visit, Grandpop would always insist on driving us home afterwards, even though we lived only a quarter mile away.\u00a0 <\/span>And we were young adults at the time!\u00a0 <\/span>I know he was worried about our safety because it was a busy road, etc., but I always thought it was funny because of course we\u2019d all heard the stories of how far they had to walk to school when they were young.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

One of the best things about grandparents is: they have time.\u00a0 <\/span>They have time to talk.\u00a0 <\/span>They have time to play games.\u00a0 <\/span>They adore spending time with their grandchildren.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

I spent hours playing games with my grandparents.\u00a0 <\/span>And I never felt like I was bothering them.\u00a0 <\/span>I always felt appreciated, loved, treasured.<\/p>\n

Grandparents are such a blessing.\u00a0 <\/span>And mine particularly so.<\/p>\n

I love you, Grandmom and Grandpop.\u00a0 <\/span>Thank you for everything!\u00a0 <\/span>God bless you a million times.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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