{"id":1834,"date":"2012-08-22T09:19:11","date_gmt":"2012-08-22T13:19:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondgorgeous\/?p=1834"},"modified":"2012-08-22T09:19:11","modified_gmt":"2012-08-22T13:19:11","slug":"breaking-the-failure-cycle-1-finding-the-pattern","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondgorgeous\/2012\/08\/breaking-the-failure-cycle-1-finding-the-pattern.html","title":{"rendered":"Breaking the Failure Cycle #1 &#8212; Finding the Pattern"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You worked hard, lost the extra weight, and you never felt better.\u00a0 So why did you go back to snacking on brownies and packing the flab back on?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondgorgeous\/files\/2012\/08\/headshot2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1835\" title=\"headshot\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/261\/2012\/08\/headshot2-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>I read an interesting book recently that gave a possible answer &#8212; and a solution. It\u2019s called <em>The Power of Habit<\/em> by Charles Duhigg (Random House, 2012).\u00a0 He uses laboratory experiments and examples of people outside the laboratory to show that habit, not conscious decisions, drives most of our choices.<\/p>\n<p>And habits aren\u2019t necessarily bad.\u00a0 Duhigg points out that we would be overwhelmed without them. Habits are the brain\u2019s way of streamlining our lives. Think about it. What do you do when you get up?\u00a0 Do you think, what shall I do first, get coffee or walk to the computer?\u00a0 Chances are you get up and start moving without thinking about it. You have a morning routine and you do it on cruise control while your brain is waking up and moving on to the day\u2019s schedule that is NOT part of the habit loop.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t believe this at first, but made note of what I did each morning.\u00a0 It\u2019s true. \u00a0I<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Visit the bathroom.<\/li>\n<li>Weigh myself.<\/li>\n<li>Check to see how many people read my blog yesterday.<\/li>\n<li>See who is on Facebook.<\/li>\n<li>Make coffee.<\/li>\n<li>Have devotions<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And I could go on for quite a while about what I do in the same order every \u00a0single day without ever thinking about it.<\/p>\n<p>It is the same with our eating patterns. We have certain things we like to eat in a particular place at a particular time. \u00a0 We may stop doing unhealthy things for a while, but if we aren\u2019t aware of the triggers and don\u2019t make a conscious effort to stop the cycle, we will continue to fall back into those familiar patterns.<\/p>\n<p>We will be looking at what Duhigg and others say about habits in the next few blogs.\u00a0 Your challenge for today, though, is to start paying attention to your routine.\u00a0 Grab a pencil and notebook and start writing down what you do routinely&#8211; or at least what you are eating and where.\u00a0 What happened before you ate that doughnut?\u00a0 What time was it when you drank that sugary drink?\u00a0 Start noticing your habits and the situations that surround them.<\/p>\n<p>When you can spot your habits and recognize the cues that set them off, you are on your way to overcoming them.<\/p>\n<p>More on habits &#8212; and on using them to lead you to success &#8212; tomorrow!<\/p>\n<p>Eating to live and living for Christ,<\/p>\n<p>Susan Jordan Brown<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You worked hard, lost the extra weight, and you never felt better.\u00a0 So why did you go back to snacking on brownies and packing the flab back on? 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