{"id":6259,"date":"2012-01-26T06:00:21","date_gmt":"2012-01-26T11:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/?p=6259"},"modified":"2011-11-26T18:58:53","modified_gmt":"2011-11-26T23:58:53","slug":"therapy-thursday-bawl-your-eyes-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2012\/01\/therapy-thursday-bawl-your-eyes-out.html","title":{"rendered":"Therapy Thursday: Bawl Your Eyes Out"},"content":{"rendered":"
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I have decided to dedicate a post on Thursday to therapy, and offer you the many tips I have learned on the couch. They will be a good reminder for me, as well, of something small I can concentrate on. Many of them are published in my book, “The Pocket Therapist: An Emotional Survival Kit.<\/a>” <\/em><\/p>\n

In a recent New York Times piece, writer Benedict Carey refers to tears as \u201cemotional perspiration.\u201d As an easy crier who sweats a lot, that makes perfect sense. But I\u2019m not ashamed to cry because tears heal in a variety of different ways. <\/p>\n

For one, they remove toxins from our body. Emotional tears (those formed in distress or grief) contain more toxic byproducts than tears of irritation, like when you peel an onion, indicating that weeping is surely nature\u2019s way of cleansing the heart and mind.
\nSecond, tears elevate mood. Crying lowers a person\u2019s manganese level, and the lower the better because overexposure to manganese (whatever it is) can cause anxiety, nervousness, irritability, fatigue, aggression, and the rest of what happens in your brain when you or your spouse are in a foul mood.<\/p>\n

Finally, crying is cathartic. <\/p>\n

You\u2019ve felt the same release that I have after a good sob, right? <\/p>\n

It\u2019s as if your body has been accumulating hurts and resentments and fears over the period of a year, a month, a week, or a half-second \u2026 until your limbic system runs out of room and then, like a volcano, the toxic gunk spews forth everywhere \u2026 onto your sweater, or a friend\u2019s sweater, or onto a Kleenex, if you\u2019re lucky enough to catch them.
\nThat\u2019s good! Because the cardiovascular and nervous systems run more smoothly after some emotional perspiration.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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