{"id":5475,"date":"2011-07-13T06:26:14","date_gmt":"2011-07-13T10:26:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/?p=5475"},"modified":"2011-07-13T11:18:46","modified_gmt":"2011-07-13T15:18:46","slug":"you-are-not-alone-a-few-survivors-of-suicide-loss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2011\/07\/you-are-not-alone-a-few-survivors-of-suicide-loss.html","title":{"rendered":"You Are Not Alone: A Few Survivors of Suicide Loss"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Survivors of suicide often feel completely alone in their sadness, which is quite understandable. Unlike losing a husband or child or parent to heart disease or cancer, loved ones of person who have committed suicide can\u2019t express their grief publicly. As often as suicide happens \u2013 approximately 30,000 times a year in our country alone\u2014the topic is still so taboo.<\/p>\n<p>Awhile back <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2010\/07\/why-suicide-an-interview-with.html\">I interviewed Eric Marcus<\/a>, author of the sobering book, <a href=\"http:\/\/whysuicidebook.com\/\">\u201cWhy Suicide?\u201d<\/a> He has now launched a blog with the same title, <a href=\"http:\/\/whysuicideblog.com\/\">\u201cWhy Suicide?\u201d<\/a> where he will be posting essays and memories of persons who have taken their own lives. I\u2019m certain it will become a healing forum for many.<\/p>\n<p>Both of us have published a comprehensive list of celebrities and notable leaders or artists from the past who are suicide survivors. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.samaritanshope.org\">Dan Fields<\/a> of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.samaritanshope.org\/index.php\/grief-support.html\">Grief Support Services program of Samaritans, Inc.<\/a>, has compiled the comprehensive list. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Thank you, Dan, for taking the time to compile this list, so that other suicide survivors feel less alone.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lost a Child<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>President John Quincy Adams (son)<a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/Marlon-Brando.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/Marlon-Brando.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"186\" height=\"248\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-5478\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nJames Arness, actor (daughter)<br \/>\nMarlon Brando, actor (daughter)<br \/>\nGro Harlem Brundtland, Prime Minister of Norway (son)<br \/>\nSir Winston Churchill, Prime Minister of the United Kingdom (daughter)<br \/>\nJudy Collins, singer\/songwriter (son)<br \/>\nTony Dungy, football coach (son)<br \/>\nRobert Frost, poet (son)<br \/>\nMajor General Mark Graham (son)<br \/>\nEric Hipple, NFL quarterback (son)<br \/>\nBrit Hume, TV journalist (son)<br \/>\nPresident Andrew Johnson (son)<br \/>\nWalter Koenig, actor (son)<br \/>\nArt Linkletter, radio\/TV personality (daughter)<br \/>\nWillie Nelson, singer\/songwriter (son)<br \/>\nCarroll O\u2019Connor, actor (son)<br \/>\nMarie Osmond, singer and actress (son)<br \/>\nSenator Gordon Smith (son)<br \/>\nDanielle Steel, romance novelist (son)<br \/>\nGloria Vanderbilt, fashion designer (son)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lost a Parent<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mikhail Baryshnikov, ballet dancer (mother)<br \/>\nRichard Belzer, actor (father)<br \/>\nLarry Bird, basketball player and executive (father)<br \/>\nDrew Brees, NFL quarterback (mother)<br \/>\nSarah Brightman, singer\/songwriter and actress (father)<br \/>\nFrederick Buechner, writer and theologian (father)<br \/>\nPerry Farrell, singer\/songwriter (mother)<br \/>\nJane Fonda, actress (mother)<br \/>\nPeter Fonda, actor (mother)<br \/>\nMariette Hartley, actress (father)<br \/>\nChristopher Hitchens, writer (mother)<br \/>\nRandi Kaye, CNN anchor (father)<br \/>\nJoshua Logan, stage and movie director (father)<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/melissa-rivers.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/melissa-rivers.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"210\" height=\"297\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5479\" \/><\/a>Archie Manning, NFL quarterback (father)<br \/>\nChester Marcol, NFL kicker (father)<br \/>\nFreddie Prinze, Jr., actor (father)<br \/>\nSenator Harry Reid (father)<br \/>\nMelissa Rivers, TV personality (father)<br \/>\nLinda Gray Sexton, writer (mother: Anne Sexton)<br \/>\nMichelle Ray Smith, actress (father)<br \/>\nFirst Lady Bess Truman (father)<br \/>\nTed Turner, media tycoon (father)<br \/>\nKurt Vonnegut, writer (mother)<br \/>\nJake Weber, actor (mother)<br \/>\nFirst Lady Ellen Wilson (father)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lost a Sibling<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Clay Aiken, singer\/songwriter (sister)<a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/mia-farrow-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/mia-farrow-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"239\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-5480\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nRobert Antonioni, Massachusetts State Senator (brother)<br \/>\nAnderson Cooper, CNN anchor (brother)<br \/>\nCameron Crowe, screenwriter and movie director (sister)<br \/>\nMia Farrow, actress and humanitarian (brother)<br \/>\nJulia Glass, novelist (sister)<br \/>\nMariel Hemingway, actress and writer (sister: Margaux Hemingway;<br \/>\nalso lost grandfather: Ernest Hemingway)<br \/>\nKatharine Hepburn, actress (brother)<br \/>\nMichel Martin, NPR host (brother)<br \/>\nPatrick Swayze, actor (sister)<\/p>\n<p><strong><strong>Lost a Spouse<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/graham1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/graham1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"199\" height=\"264\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5481\" \/><\/a>Stephen Ambrose, historian (wife)<br \/>\nLouise Erdrich, novelist (estranged husband)<br \/>\nHenry Fonda, actor (wife)<br \/>\nKatharine Graham, Washington Post publisher (husband)<br \/>\nHelmut Kohl, Chancellor of Germany (wife)<br \/>\nCourtney Love, singer\/songwriter (husband: Kurt Cobain)<br \/>\nHelen Steiner Rice, poet (husband)<br \/>\nJoan Rivers, comedian (husband)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lost Other Loved One<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>David Bowie, singer\/songwriter and actor (half-brother)<br \/>\nCarmen Electra, actress and model (half-brother)<br \/>\nEminem, singer\/songwriter (two uncles, one of whom he regarded as a father)<br \/>\nSylvie Fr\u00e9chette, Canadian synchronized swimmer (fianc\u00e9)<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/files\/2011\/07\/225px-John_F._Kerry.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/2011\/07\/225px-John_F._Kerry-206x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"206\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-5482\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nFerguson Jenkins, baseball pitcher (fianc\u00e9e)<br \/>\nSenator John Kerry (grandfather)<br \/>\nEli Manning, NFL quarterback (grandfather)<br \/>\nPeyton Manning, NFL quarterback (grandfather)<br \/>\nLiza Minnelli, singer and actress (aunt)<br \/>\nDemi Moore, actress (stepfather)<br \/>\nDenis Potvin, hockey player (cousin: Marc Potvin)<br \/>\nDavid Spade, actor and comedian (stepfather)<\/p>\n<p><em>Compiled by Dan Fields for the Grief Support 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