{"id":53,"date":"2007-01-17T11:15:00","date_gmt":"2007-01-17T11:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2007\/01\/st-peters-tool.html"},"modified":"2007-01-17T11:15:00","modified_gmt":"2007-01-17T11:15:00","slug":"st-peters-tool","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2007\/01\/st-peters-tool.html","title":{"rendered":"St. Peter&#8217;s Tool"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Clearing clutter has got to be the number one tool used by God&#8217;s watchdog of the pearly gates (St. Peter) to distinguish the advanced souls on earth&#8211;the Dalai Lamas with absolutely no attachment to material objects&#8211;from their infant brother and sister spirits, who clutch petals from their wedding bouquets and movie tickets from a first date 30 years ago in hopes of hanging on to the good memories of the past.<\/p>\n<p>As for me, I&#8217;m locked both in Christmas past&#8211;with boxes of journals and college notebooks I can&#8217;t throw out&#8211;and Christmas future&#8211;with crates of research for books I intend to write in 2010 or 2012, when I&#8217;ll have more time. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s simple,&#8221; Eric instructed me the other day as I attempted this torturous exercise. &#8220;If you haven&#8217;t used it or pulled it out in five years, chuck it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He walked over to a box in the garage labeled &#8220;mystic friendships.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What on earth is in here?&#8221; he asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Research for a book I am going to write about the friendships between some of the great Christian mystics.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Right. Have you opened the box in five years?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then chuck it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Why?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Because one of these days, I will write that book.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Okay. Then buy the resources you need at that time.&#8221; (Note to readers: If any of you would like to write the book, I&#8217;d be happy to ship my photocopies and books to you.)<\/p>\n<p>My handicap in the garage points to a much larger issue, of course&#8211;one that feeds my depression. I&#8217;m terrified to let go. Of everything in the past. And of all the potential in the future. I&#8217;m a flaming &#8220;P&#8221; (Perceiver) on the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.myersbriggs.org\/\">Myers-Briggs<\/a> personality test, which means I see possibility in every sheet of paper and notebook and journal and movie stub and wedding napkin. It&#8217;s all so meaningful! 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