{"id":346,"date":"2007-07-12T12:45:27","date_gmt":"2007-07-12T12:45:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2007\/07\/a-success-story.html"},"modified":"2007-07-12T12:45:27","modified_gmt":"2007-07-12T12:45:27","slug":"a-success-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2007\/07\/a-success-story.html","title":{"rendered":"A Success Story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve said this before, but I learn as much for my readers and readers learn in my posts.<br \/>\nOne reader, TJ (I remember because that\u2019s also my nickname), wrote back in May, &#8220;How do I reach out for help?&#8221;<br \/>\nI forget what I said. No, I remember: &#8220;Just do it. But don\u2019t expect people to understand once you\u2019ve done it.&#8221;<br \/>\nShe\u2019s a big teacher to me right now. Because she did exactly what she needed to do\u2014she asked for help. Following her lead, I called my doctor yesterday to report that things were somewhat blue in Beyond Blue\u2019s world.<br \/>\nIn a follow-up e-mail, TJ (the other one) wrote me this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Being in the hospital (for the fourth time) was actually a relief for me. That and the feeling alone-ness before I went in was definitely not cool. I\u2019m thankful for the counselor at school and my awesome therapist who made the time to be with me that bad day in May.<br \/>\nFunny how I answered my own question&#8211;How do I reach out for help?\u2014isn\u2019t it? I\u2019ve learned through the years who is a good person to turn to in a crisis, then learned how to turn to them when I needed to the most. I\u2019m proud for solving my problem in a &#8220;safe&#8221; way\u2014nobody got hurt, especially me!\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Congrats, TJ, you\u2019re helping all of us by setting a great example.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve said this before, but I learn as much for my readers and readers learn in my posts. One reader, TJ (I remember because that\u2019s also my nickname), wrote back in May, &#8220;How do I reach out for help?&#8221; I forget what I said. No, I remember: &#8220;Just do it. 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