{"id":2183,"date":"2010-03-18T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-03-18T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2010\/03\/the-fern-and-the-bamboo-1.html"},"modified":"2010-03-18T10:00:00","modified_gmt":"2010-03-18T10:00:00","slug":"the-fern-and-the-bamboo-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2010\/03\/the-fern-and-the-bamboo-1.html","title":{"rendered":"The Fern and the Bamboo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"bamboo.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/import\/imgs\/bamboo.jpg\" width=\"240\" height=\"361\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/span><br \/>\n<em>Because I&#8217;m needing some extra encouragement and inspiration these days, I thought I&#8217;d publish this lovely parable that my guardian angel Ann sent me awhile back.<\/em><br \/>\nOne day I decided to quit&#8230;I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality&#8230;. I wanted to quit my life. I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.<br \/>\n&#8220;God&#8221;, I said. &#8220;Can you give me one good reason not to quit?&#8221;<br \/>\nHis answer surprised me.<br \/>\n&#8220;Look around&#8221;, He said. &#8220;Do you see the fern and the bamboo?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Yes&#8221;, I replied.<br \/>\n&#8220;When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.<br \/>\n&#8220;In the second year the fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.<br \/>\n&#8220;In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. The same in year four.<br \/>\n&#8220;Then in the fifth year, a tiny sprout emerged from the earth.<br \/>\nCompared to the fern, it was seemingly small and insignificant.<br \/>\nBut just six months later, the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.<br \/>\nIt had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.<br \/>\n&#8220;Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots? I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you.<br \/>\n&#8220;Don&#8217;t compare yourself to others.&#8221; He said. &#8220;The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful.<br \/>\n&#8220;Your time will come&#8221;, God said to me. &#8220;You will rise high.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;How high should I rise?&#8221; I asked.<br \/>\n&#8220;How high will the bamboo rise?&#8221; He asked in return.<br \/>\n&#8220;As high as it can?&#8221; I questioned.<br \/>\n&#8220;Yes.&#8221; He said, &#8220;Give me glory by rising as high as you can.&#8221;<br \/>\nI left the forest, realizing that God will never give up on me. And He will never give up on you.<br \/>\nNever regret a day in your life.<br \/>\nGood days give you happiness; bad days give you experiences; both are essential to life.<br \/>\n&#8211;Author Unknown<\/p>\n<p><i>*&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/feedburner.google.com\/fb\/a\/mailverify?uri=beyondblue1\">Click here to <b>subscribe to Beyond Blue<\/b><\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/thereseborchard\">click here to follow Therese on <b>Twitter<\/b><\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/beyond_blue\">click here to join <b>Group Beyond Blue<\/b><\/a>, a depression support group. Now stop clicking.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Because I&#8217;m needing some extra encouragement and inspiration these days, I thought I&#8217;d publish this lovely parable that my guardian angel Ann sent me awhile back. One day I decided to quit&#8230;I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality&#8230;. I wanted to quit my life. 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