{"id":2133,"date":"2010-02-03T10:00:46","date_gmt":"2010-02-03T10:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2010\/02\/from-the-maternity-ward-to-the.html"},"modified":"2010-02-03T10:00:46","modified_gmt":"2010-02-03T10:00:46","slug":"from-the-maternity-ward-to-the","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2010\/02\/from-the-maternity-ward-to-the.html","title":{"rendered":"From the Maternity Ward to the Psych Ward: What Every Mom Should Know"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\nAwhile back I was asked by “Dallas News” reporter Nancy Churnin<\/a> to guest blog on “Dallas Moms,” (part of “The Dallas Morning News”).<\/a> They wanted me to write about motherhood and mental illness, and of course I have no trouble coming up with material there. Click here to get the original post.<\/a> I have excerpted below.<\/p>\n

What happened?”<\/p>\n

“What was it like?”<\/p>\n

I have about 45 responses to those two questions that I’ve written out ever since I attended a media coaching seminar in November. The presenters encouraged us to map out our stories for our listeners, taking them to the places of action that form our plot.<\/p>\n

I have three primary stories. Unfortunately, they all involve my kids.<\/p>\n

Here is one:<\/p>\n

My three-year-old son and I were sitting on his bed playing with toy cars. He was pushing his toy police car down the seams of the quilt, pretending they were roads.<\/p>\n

“You’re in the back,” he said to me.
\n“Why am I in the back?” I asked.
\n“Because you’re bad.”
\n“Why am I bad?”
\n“Because you cry so much.”<\/p>\n

I guess that’s what it was like.<\/p>\n

I was always crying.
\nAlways embarrassed.
\nAlways pretending.
\nTo be a competent mom.
\nWhen I was the least thing from it. <\/p>\n

What happened?<\/p>\n

If you think about it, the early months of motherhood are the perfect storm for mood disorders to develop. You take a woman whose hormones have been rearranged and sold at a garage sale. You give her a kid who doesn’t sleep (in my case) for more than three hours for five years in a row. And you lock her in the house alone with this crying thing, so that she sits there in isolation most of her day.<\/p>\n

Sleep deprivation and isolation alone, with perfectly balanced hormones, is enough to ship someone off to the psych ward. Dump unto that the Irish-dancing hormones, and you’re guaranteed a mess.<\/p>\n

My mess fit into a neat diagnosis of Bipolar II, which I like to call the smoother, softer kind of manic depression.<\/p>\n

Could I have prevented the mess?<\/p>\n

\nClick here to continue reading.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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