{"id":2115,"date":"2010-01-19T10:00:55","date_gmt":"2010-01-19T10:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2010\/01\/beyond-blue-12-steps-toward-fr.html"},"modified":"2010-01-19T10:00:55","modified_gmt":"2010-01-19T10:00:55","slug":"beyond-blue-12-steps-toward-fr","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2010\/01\/beyond-blue-12-steps-toward-fr.html","title":{"rendered":"Beyond Blue: 12 Steps Toward Freedom From Depression"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Freedom from Depression.jpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/import\/imgs\/Freedom%20from%20Depression.jpeg\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p>After trying 23 medication combinations, 7 psychiatrists, two hospitalization programs, and every form of alternative therapy available&#8211;from homeopathic remedies to yoga, I assumed I was one of those unfortunate statistics with treatment-resistant depression, a Humpty-Dumpty type that would never recover from the fall of a nervous breakdown.<\/p>\n<p>There was no magic that happened between then and now, the month&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/1599951568\/beliefnet\">my book about my recovery<\/a> hits the shelves. I just kept on getting out of bed. Even on the days where my thoughts were cemented in the black stuff, in negativity and toxic emotions, I tried to pick up one foot and place it in front on the next. <\/p>\n<p>Here are the tools I picked up along the way, the 12 basic lessons that help me in my mission to stay <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/1599951568\/beliefnet\">&#8220;Beyond Blue,&#8221;<\/a> or at least out of black for as long as possible.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Laugh.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>From my 12 years of therapy I have learned at least one thing: I use sarcasm as a defense mechanism. But I&#8217;m keeping the jokes and the acerbic tone because Abe Lincoln and Art Buchwald, two of my mental health heroes, said wit was essential to sanity, that comedy can keep a person out of the psych ward (not really). And if you&#8217;re laughing, you&#8217;re not crying &#8230; even though the two look similar from 10 feet away.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Sweat.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As a recovering addict, I love any buzz I can get. Working out&#8211;any exercise that gets my heart rate over 140 beats per minute (into the cardiovascular zone) does the job. And in a safe way, so I don&#8217;t have to cheat on my sobriety. I&#8217;m probably as addicted to exercise as I was to booze, but this is one mood-altering activity that doesn&#8217;t deteriorate my marriage and my other relationships. <\/p>\n<p>The right kind of exercise actually acts like an antidepressant: increasing the activity of serotonin and\/or norepinephrine in your brain and releasing those coveted endorphins and other hormones that reduce pain, induce euphoria, have a calming effect, and combat stress.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Eat the right stuff.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The more I investigate&#8211;both through research and nonscientific experiments with body&#8211;the more I realize how my diet affects my mood. <\/p>\n<p>Here are the bad boys: nicotine, caffeine (it&#8217;s a drug, which is why I&#8217;m addicted to it), alcohol, white flour and processed food (what you live on when you have kids who won&#8217;t touch tofu and spinach); and sugar &#8230; that&#8217;s a whole other blog post.<\/p>\n<p>Here are the good guys: protein (eggs, milk, cheese, yogurt, meat, fish, chicken, seeds, nuts); complex starches (whole grains, beans, potatoes); vegetables (broccoli, spinach, squash); vitamins (vitamin B-complex, vitamins E and C, and a multivitamin); minerals (magnesium, calcium, and zinc); and omega-3 fatty acids.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/Health\/Emotional-Health\/2010\/01\/The-Lessons-of-Depression.aspx?p=5\">Click here to continue reading.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><i>*&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/feedburner.google.com\/fb\/a\/mailverify?uri=beyondblue1\">Click here to <b>subscribe to Beyond Blue<\/b><\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/thereseborchard\">click here to follow Therese on <b>Twitter<\/b><\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/beyond_blue\">click here to join <b>Group Beyond Blue<\/b><\/a>, a depression support group. Now stop clicking.<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After trying 23 medication combinations, 7 psychiatrists, two hospitalization programs, and every form of alternative therapy available&#8211;from homeopathic remedies to yoga, I assumed I was one of those unfortunate statistics with treatment-resistant depression, a Humpty-Dumpty type that would never recover from the fall of a nervous breakdown. 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