{"id":1832,"date":"2009-06-12T07:17:56","date_gmt":"2009-06-12T07:17:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2009\/06\/ocd-what-does-a-neighbor-do.html"},"modified":"2009-06-12T07:17:56","modified_gmt":"2009-06-12T07:17:56","slug":"ocd-what-does-a-neighbor-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2009\/06\/ocd-what-does-a-neighbor-do.html","title":{"rendered":"OCD: What Does a Neighbor Do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I enjoyed this post from <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/06\/good-neighbors-respect-privacy-or-leap-in-to-lend-a-hand.html\">fellow Beliefnet blogger Hillary Fields<\/a> about whether or not to impose when someone has, well, peculiar behaviors. In her post, <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/06\/good-neighbors-respect-privacy-or-leap-in-to-lend-a-hand.html\">&#8220;Good Neighbors: Respect Privacy, or Leap In to Lend a Hand,&#8221;<\/a> Hillary writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>My neighbor has OCD&#8211;a fact I just recently learned. For the longest time I believed she simply hated me, or that she thought I was a psycho, and here&#8217;s why: she wouldn&#8217;t get on the elevator with me. We&#8217;d wait together by the elevator bank, the little indicator light glowing silently between us, and when the doors opened, she wouldn&#8217;t move to get on. (After a few rounds of this, I&#8217;d even&#8211;discreetly&#8211;sniff my pits, but no, I hadn&#8217;t neglected my deodorant.) Then I noticed that she would sometimes ride downstairs with me, but other times not. &#8220;Weird,&#8221; I thought. &#8220;What is up with this lady?&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/06\/good-neighbors-respect-privacy-or-leap-in-to-lend-a-hand.html\">To continue reading Hilary&#8217;s post, click here.<\/a><br \/>\n<em>To read more <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\">Beyond Blue, go to http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue<\/a>, and to get to <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/beyond_blue\">Group Beyond Blue, a support group at Beliefnet Community, click here.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.feedburner.com\/fb\/a\/emailverifySubmit?feedId=611738&amp;loc=en_US\">To subscribe to &#8220;Beyond Blue&#8221; click here.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"rss.gif\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/71\/import\/imgs\/rss.gif\" width=\"45\" height=\"44\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I enjoyed this post from fellow Beliefnet blogger Hillary Fields about whether or not to impose when someone has, well, peculiar behaviors. In her post, &#8220;Good Neighbors: Respect Privacy, or Leap In to Lend a Hand,&#8221; Hillary writes: My neighbor has OCD&#8211;a fact I just recently learned. 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