{"id":1542,"date":"2010-02-09T06:00:53","date_gmt":"2010-02-09T06:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2010\/02\/group-beyond-blue-letting-go-o.html"},"modified":"2010-02-09T06:00:53","modified_gmt":"2010-02-09T06:00:53","slug":"group-beyond-blue-letting-go-o","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2010\/02\/group-beyond-blue-letting-go-o.html","title":{"rendered":"Group Beyond Blue: Letting Go of Someone You Thought Loved You"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Group Beyond Blue member Blondie started an interesting thread on Group Beyond Blue at Beliefnet Community<\/a> called “Letting go of someone you thought loved you.”<\/a> She writes:<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, 4 years ago I fell in love with my boss. It has affected my depression and moods so much and now I have to let go of a dream that I had. Unfortunately he is married. Anyone have any suggestions? Why did I get involved in the first place? This is not something that is healthy and I realize that it is a sin to love someone that is not yours. I do have to say that I believed 4 years ago when he said he was leaving his wife but not because of me he was already taking those steps so …. I let myself get involved. \n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Now, I have to work for him and with him and shove away all the emotions and feelings. Hard to deal with because there is a part of me that is so angry with myself and him. <\/p>\n

My doctor just switched me to Pristiq so I am hoping that this might help deal better when I am at the office. Effexor was just not working. Making me very aggressive and more angry. <\/p>\n

Other than finding another job how do I get back to just being an employee and friend?<\/p>\n

Just need to know if I am alone in this?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

To tune into this discussion thread, click here.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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