{"id":1353,"date":"2008-10-23T09:15:23","date_gmt":"2008-10-23T09:15:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/2008\/10\/barbara-good-enough-is-great.html"},"modified":"2008-10-23T09:15:23","modified_gmt":"2008-10-23T09:15:23","slug":"barbara-good-enough-is-great","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2008\/10\/barbara-good-enough-is-great.html","title":{"rendered":"Barbara: Good Enough is Great"},"content":{"rendered":"

I also appreciated Beyond Blue<\/a> Barbara’s comment on the same post, “12 Ways to Overcome Jealousy and Envy,”<\/a> because it reminded the wisdom in the flick “Babe,”<\/a> when the farmer says to the pig, “That’ll do, Pig. That’ll do.” If only I stopped at that … when I have done enough, not necessarily an exceptional job, but enough. Barbara writes:<\/p>\n

Just a thought, but is there anyone (who isn’t driven,) who *always* does their best? From my own perspective, doing my best is never enough to assuage feelings of inadequecy or that old bugaboo of depressives: feeling that if people really knew you, they would see what a phony you are. I have had to learn to see my efforts as *good enough.* Not perfect, or even necessarily my best, but good enough for what is called for.\u00a0\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Feelings of envy and jealousy come from comparing ourselves with others – knowing all our faults and foibles – and none of the person we are using as a yardstick. In that case, we will never measure up. Rather than focusing on the other person, we have to work at seeing ourselves as God sees us: as loveable, flawed children. As we become more able to do that, the need to compare ourselves with others fades. It is something I am working on myself, and is a life-long project. I may not always do my best at it, but I will strive to do it good enough.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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