{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Beyond Blue","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue","author_name":"Beyond Blue","author_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/author\/tborchard","title":"9 Ways to Affair-Proof Your Marriage (the Gallery) - Beyond Blue","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"xSEjCkj3IE\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2010\/08\/9-ways-to-affair-proof-your-ma.html\">9 Ways to Affair-Proof Your Marriage (the Gallery)<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2010\/08\/9-ways-to-affair-proof-your-ma.html\/embed#?secret=xSEjCkj3IE\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;9 Ways to Affair-Proof Your Marriage (the Gallery)&#8221; &#8212; Beyond Blue\" data-secret=\"xSEjCkj3IE\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"According to Peggy Vaughan, the author of &#8220;The Monogamy Myth,&#8221; 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in their marriage. In other words, the person who stays monogamous within her marriage is among a growing minority. Twelve years into my marriage, I can appreciate that statistic.&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beyondblue\/files\/import\/imgs\/affairproof.jpeg"}