{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Beyond Blue","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue","author_name":"Beyond Blue","author_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/author\/tborchard","title":"Melody Beattie on Boundaries - Beyond Blue","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"DbBlMF8ftw\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2008\/01\/melody-beattie-on-boundaries.html\">Melody Beattie on Boundaries<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beyondblue\/2008\/01\/melody-beattie-on-boundaries.html\/embed#?secret=DbBlMF8ftw\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Melody Beattie on Boundaries&#8221; &#8212; Beyond Blue\" data-secret=\"DbBlMF8ftw\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"Melody Beattie is a great author to read when you\u2019re having boundaries problems and are letting all sorts of people and their opinions into your core. The following excerpt is from her book, \u201cThe Language of Letting Go\u201d: \u201cThere&#8217;s a good trick that people in dysfunctional relationships use,\u201d said one recovering woman. \u201cThe other person&hellip;"}