{"id":52,"date":"2013-09-11T00:58:18","date_gmt":"2013-09-11T00:58:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/bemore\/?p=52"},"modified":"2013-09-11T01:06:36","modified_gmt":"2013-09-11T01:06:36","slug":"loving-people-no-matter-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/bemore\/2013\/09\/loving-people-no-matter-what.html","title":{"rendered":"Loving People No Matter What"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/357\/2013\/09\/bigstock-Love-Heart-1239011.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-53\" alt=\"Unconditional Love\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/357\/2013\/09\/bigstock-Love-Heart-1239011.jpg\" width=\"504\" height=\"454\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>I recently asked God to do something radical.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;God, please help me to love anyone, anywhere and to never be disgusted.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now before you want to correct me and ask me to explain what &#8216;disgusted means&#8217;&#8230; let me continue.<\/p>\n<p>So many times when we say we want to love everyone, we always have this invisible line that is drawn. You know&#8230;. The line where people who are &#8216;like that&#8217; couldn&#8217;t possibly be included. I mean the people who do all manner of immoral, unethical, illegal things, certainly that would not be included, right?<strong> Nope.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>This time I included them all. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Everyone who has a bad track record, maybe even a legal track record. People who do things that would normally cause others to turn their heads and cower in disgust. <em>&#8220;God, please help me to love anyone, anywhere and to never be disgusted.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t mean I want to be like them.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t mean I approve of what they do.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, it means I commit to having no opinion at that moment. I choose to only love. True unconditional heaven sent love.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;God, help me to love the people who do horrific things that most would stand in awe and be disgusted towards.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t do this on my own. I am completely incapable of doing this on my own. But the greatest of these is love, Jesus said. And I want to be great at this. And if I do? 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