{"id":22,"date":"2013-08-25T22:44:43","date_gmt":"2013-08-25T22:44:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/bemore\/?p=22"},"modified":"2013-08-25T22:49:46","modified_gmt":"2013-08-25T22:49:46","slug":"you-choose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/bemore\/2013\/08\/you-choose.html","title":{"rendered":"You Choose"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/357\/2013\/08\/1d2e98fe58702fb10bc63f662ac1b272.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-23\" alt=\"You Choose\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/357\/2013\/08\/1d2e98fe58702fb10bc63f662ac1b272.jpg\" width=\"448\" height=\"448\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\"><strong><\/strong>We all have a past. We all have a history. <em>But no one moves forward in life by looking at what&#8217;s in the rear view mirror.<\/em> Can you imagine? Driving down a freeway going 70 miles per hour, but the only place you can look is behind you? I hate to break it to you, but you&#8217;d be dead. Are you killing your future by focusing on your past?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">When we focus on our past, what we&#8217;ve done, <em>where we were<\/em>\u00a0&#8230;&#8230;and not on our future and where we are going, we cripple ourselves. You were given a gift from God. Use it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">It&#8217;s a beautiful thing, choice. God gave us a choice. It&#8217;s His powerful gift to us all. He has given us power to choose. Power to recreate ourselves, wipe the slate clean, <strong>start over.<\/strong> And deep within the human spirit is a desire to do that. To be new. To start over. To experience change.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">It&#8217;s never too late to become your best self. Take the beliefs that are in conflict with your goals and your purpose and <strong>reject them<\/strong>. It&#8217;s that simple.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Today, you choose. Where you&#8217;ll go. How you&#8217;ll handle things. <em>How you&#8217;ll respond when things don&#8217;t go your way.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">It&#8217;s not about having our way all the time and being the one who wins, it&#8217;s all about who we BECOME in this journey of life that matters. Where was our heart? What was our focus on?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">To dream gives us something to live for. To press forward despite a past that is littered with shattered pieces encourages us all. So do your part. Quit trying to be an overnight wonder. <em>Stop punishing yourself for things in your past.<\/em> If God offers forgiveness, please, take it. He gave you a choice. So choose.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\"><strong>Your best life is just ahead!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">With love,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">Sandi Krakowski<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/357\/2013\/08\/sandihead-150x150.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-16\" alt=\"sandihead-150x150\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/357\/2013\/08\/sandihead-150x150.jpg\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have a past. We all have a history. But no one moves forward in life by looking at what&#8217;s in the rear view mirror. Can you imagine? Driving down a freeway going 70 miles per hour, but the only place you can look is behind you? 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