{"id":9956,"date":"2015-02-14T18:24:37","date_gmt":"2015-02-14T23:24:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=9956"},"modified":"2015-02-14T18:24:37","modified_gmt":"2015-02-14T23:24:37","slug":"different-strokes-and-notes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2015\/02\/different-strokes-and-notes.html","title":{"rendered":"different strokes (and notes)"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_9957\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9957\" style=\"width: 150px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2015\/02\/music-in-colour.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-9957\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2015\/02\/music-in-colour-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"via google\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9957\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">via google<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>For Valentine&#8217;s Day, I bought my beloved an early present, before I left town. \ud83d\ude42 Seriously &#8212; he loves music, and with his busted up knees, it&#8217;s sometimes a royal pain to get up &amp; change the music. So, I bought him a bluetooth gadget that coordinates between his phone and our receiver. Cool, huh?<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the part I hadn&#8217;t considered: we like pretty different music. Sure there&#8217;s overlap: we both like some oldies, certain smooth jazz, even many holiday carols. But overall? I&#8217;m a classical\/ jazz\/ ethnic &amp; international music girl. I like techno, even electronica, and all kinds of &#8216;weird&#8217; things. He likes some jazz, but more rock&#8217;n&#8217;roll, certain female vocalists, and other stuff I can&#8217;t really put in neat boxes. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>This is good, right? That we have different tastes? That I am learning more about this man I&#8217;ve known a lifetime? This is a kind of cool beginner&#8217;s heart journey: sharing new artists, revisiting old ones. Except when I&#8217;m thinking; <em>that is flat NOISE, honey!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In other words? This really is\u00a0a definite beginner&#8217;s heart thing: patience, amusement, and self-learning. Laughing even as I I wince at the hammering bass line. (Seriously &#8212; it&#8217;s really NOT all about the bass, folks.) It&#8217;s the kind of gift that&#8230;.goes on giving. Right? \ud83d\ude09 And that&#8217;s a\u00a0<em><strong>good<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0thing&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For Valentine&#8217;s Day, I bought my beloved an early present, before I left town. \ud83d\ude42 Seriously &#8212; he loves music, and with his busted up knees, it&#8217;s sometimes a royal pain to get up &amp; change the music. So, I bought him a bluetooth gadget that coordinates between his phone and our receiver. 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