{"id":9648,"date":"2014-12-20T15:20:02","date_gmt":"2014-12-20T20:20:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=9648"},"modified":"2014-12-20T15:20:02","modified_gmt":"2014-12-20T20:20:02","slug":"three-things-among-many-i-love-about-this-season","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2014\/12\/three-things-among-many-i-love-about-this-season.html","title":{"rendered":"three things (among many) I love about this season"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_9673\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9673\" style=\"width: 218px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2014\/12\/Christmas-music-wreath.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-9673\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2014\/12\/Christmas-music-wreath.jpg\" alt=\"via google\" width=\"218\" height=\"222\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9673\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">via google<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>1. Music<\/p>\n<p>One of the best things about the holiday season is the music. I have a Spotify Christmas music playlist of almost 500 songs. And there are even more on my iPad! So that would be the first totally non-secular thing I love about this time of year: music. Everything from hammered dulcimer playing very old English carols to the Barenaked Ladies blaring out &#8220;Do They Know It&#8217;s Christmas?&#8221; How can we celebrate w\/out music??<\/p>\n<p>2. Food<\/p>\n<p>It should come as noooo surprise to anyone who knows me that food figures in this list. \ud83d\ude42 I spent the past week cooking &#8212; for my girlfriends holiday tea. \u00a0My sisters &amp; nieces join women from my writing classes, from my former job, from all parts of my life. And I cook like the crazy person I can be: quiche, panna cotta (tried eggnog this year &#8212; success!), hummus (not always &#8212; it was a pass this year), four kinds of tea. All the fun accoutrements: the family silver, including the tea service; the ironstone w\/ birds &amp; flowers; runners embroidered w\/ gold thread. So maybe instead of &#8216;food&#8217; I should say: ritual sharing of food&#8230;?<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_9678\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9678\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2014\/12\/10830477_10152891217049410_7506968005508451875_o.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-9678\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2014\/12\/10830477_10152891217049410_7506968005508451875_o-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"the author's\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9678\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">the author&#8217;s<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>3. Thinking of my friends &amp; family<\/p>\n<p>Wrapping, for instance: we found pirate ribbon! A\u00a0<em>perfect<\/em> ribbon for my nephew (and for my younger son, were he joining us instead of traipsing across the Philippines!). How fun! Trying to find a gift for nieces &amp; nephews I don&#8217;t see often, but love dearly. What are their interests? What would they enjoy? We&#8217;re not always big on gift cards, although we do those as well. Mostly, I love the excuse to buy presents for people I love, to cook for them, to show them in tangible ways how very dear they are.<\/p>\n<p>I used to feel guilty, as a Buddhist, celebrating Christmas. Not so much while the children were small &#8212; I did it for them, and my family, I told myself. But who\u00a0<em>doesn&#8217;t<\/em> love a riotously pagan tree, lit up against the winter darkness, floating on a tidal wave of gifts? Glittering foil, bright curls of ribbon, stockings bulging with trinkets&#8230; Who could resist?? But as I thought about it, the ways in which this time of year has come to be a giving back, a giving to, have won me over from my usual self-doubt.<\/p>\n<p>So as you go about the hectic craziness that is American holiday season, remember that even if you&#8217;re not a Christian, and don&#8217;t celebrate Hannukah, there are\u00a0<em>other\u00a0<\/em>blessings to the season. Warm, wonderful reasons to rejoice. What are yours?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Music One of the best things about the holiday season is the music. I have a Spotify Christmas music playlist of almost 500 songs. And there are even more on my iPad! So that would be the first totally non-secular thing I love about this time of year: music. 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