{"id":9589,"date":"2014-11-29T19:52:30","date_gmt":"2014-11-30T00:52:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=9589"},"modified":"2014-11-29T19:52:30","modified_gmt":"2014-11-30T00:52:30","slug":"day-28-in-a-month-of-thanksgiving-its-the-happily-ever-after-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2014\/11\/day-28-in-a-month-of-thanksgiving-its-the-happily-ever-after-thing.html","title":{"rendered":"day #28 in a month of Thanksgiving: it&#8217;s the happily ever after thing&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_200\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-200\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2011\/05\/two-hearts.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-200 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2011\/05\/two-hearts-300x239.jpg\" alt=\"two-hearts\" width=\"300\" height=\"239\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-200\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">via google<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Today I&#8217;m very grateful for all the little things my beloved does, every day. Things ranging from getting up to take the dogs out when they howl at 2 a.m. (maybe that&#8217;s a big thing&#8230;), to running to the store for the THIRD time the day before Thanksgiving, to checking online to find the best deal when it&#8217;s time to renew my cell phone.<\/p>\n<p>And there are &#8212; of course! &#8212; all kinds of more important things, as well. The way he makes no distinctions between &#8216;his&#8217; family and &#8216;my&#8217; family. It&#8217;s all our family &#8212; my sisters, his, in-laws, out-laws, the whole crazy mob.<\/p>\n<p>The way he listens when I try to puzzle through a challenge, letting me process. The way he really <i>looks<\/i>\u00a0when I ask him what he thinks of a new sweater.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously my happy relationship w\/ my beloved is NOT a &#8216;small&#8217; gratitude. But it&#8217;s certainly an everyday gratitude: not one day goes by &#8212; rarely even a couple of hours &#8212; that I don&#8217;t stop to consider how much fuller, richer, more FUN my life is because of a blind date at college.<\/p>\n<p>So today? I&#8217;m grateful for the small things a very BIG part of my life makes possible. Here&#8217;s to happily ever after. May it greet you every day.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today I&#8217;m very grateful for all the little things my beloved does, every day. 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