{"id":8885,"date":"2014-07-18T19:43:37","date_gmt":"2014-07-18T23:43:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=8885"},"modified":"2014-07-18T19:43:37","modified_gmt":"2014-07-18T23:43:37","slug":"wildflowers-watermelon-and-summer-negligence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2014\/07\/wildflowers-watermelon-and-summer-negligence.html","title":{"rendered":"wildflowers, watermelon, and summer negligence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2014\/07\/2014-07-18-18.28.51.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-8886 \" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2014\/07\/2014-07-18-18.28.51-300x168.jpg\" alt=\"2014-07-18 18.28.51\" width=\"259\" height=\"145\" \/><\/a>This is part of what I did today. Certainly the better part.<\/p>\n<p>After an early morning &#8212; spent w\/ a lawyer, not every my favourite thing to do &#8212; my sister called and needed help. She&#8217;d been left holding the bag (actually, 6 bags) for her HS reunion gig tonight, and hoped her big sis would help out.<\/p>\n<p>Of course!<\/p>\n<p>So I picked some flowers from the garden, she picked up Thai soup, and we got to work cutting up fruit for trays, and bread for cocktail sandwiches. And I did just fine until&#8230;the watermelon &lt;cue solemn voice of foreboding&gt;.<\/p>\n<p>This next photo is NSF blood-phobes. I cut my finger w\/ our verrry sharp new cleaver. You might say&#8230; I clove it. BIG slice into the finger and its poor nail. It&#8217;s like the WORST papercut. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2014\/07\/cut-finger.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-8887 \" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2014\/07\/cut-finger-272x300.jpg\" alt=\"cut finger\" width=\"195\" height=\"215\" \/><\/a>Stitches almost certainly won&#8217;t help, so I didn&#8217;t even bother.<\/p>\n<p>Sigh. My sister was horrified &#8212; it bled <em>alot<\/em>. But it&#8217;s stopped that, and left this interesting pattern of honeycomb on the Bandaid that had nothing like that before it wrapped my finger.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll be seeing shorter posts for a few days, I assure you. Typing is&#8230; iffy. Make that ouch-y.<\/p>\n<p>I still feel like Isaac Bashevis Singer, though: if it hadn&#8217;t been this, who knows what it might have been? And it was <em>great<\/em> to see my sis! 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