{"id":8779,"date":"2014-06-27T18:21:22","date_gmt":"2014-06-27T22:21:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=8779"},"modified":"2014-06-27T18:31:25","modified_gmt":"2014-06-27T22:31:25","slug":"mistakes-that-arent-bad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2014\/06\/mistakes-that-arent-bad.html","title":{"rendered":"mistakes that aren’t bad"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Making reservations for hotels while we’re on vacation, I couldn’t get the online form to ‘submit.’ Literally. Try after try, it said I wasn’t finished.\u00a0 Yes I am!<\/em> I thought. Dumb computer<\/em><\/p>\n

But you know what? I’d messed up, and the form was right. I did NOT want to send it in w\/ 2 rooms for 1 adult, instead of 1 room for the two of us.<\/p>\n

Whether it was dumb luck or divine providence, it made me stop and wonder: how often have what seemed to be mistakes — even minor catastrophes — turned out to be that old blessing in disguise<\/em>? And how often do I wail for no reason — even refusing to see the good that can come from a ‘mistake.’<\/p>\n

It’s like the story Nobel laureate Isaac Bashevis Singer<\/a> told, of a man whose only cow is taken. When an onlooker complains to an angel he’s accompanying (you need to find the story!), the angel replies: We were scheduled to take the wife, but he’s such a good man, we took the cow instead<\/em>.<\/p>\n

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That’s not really a mistake, I know. But it’s the same point, at least to me. ‘Bad’ things may actually have good consequences.<\/p>\n

All day today, when I stubbed my toe, or had a headache from my eye exam (I sooo hate having my eyes dilated!), or found the shirt I wanted clean for the trip in a messy heap, I thought about this. And you know what?<\/p>\n

My day seemed measurably more pleasant. There may well have been angels watching.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Making reservations for hotels while we’re on vacation, I couldn’t get the online form to ‘submit.’ Literally. Try after try, it said I wasn’t finished.\u00a0 Yes I am! I thought. Dumb computer But you know what? I’d messed up, and the form was right. 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