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Writing is my practice. It took me a long<\/em> time to recognise this, and even longer to accept it. It didn’t fit my (preconceived!) notions of what ‘practice’ looks like.<\/p>\n

But over the years, I’ve come to realise that writing — which I do daily, and multiple times daily, at that — is not easy for others. In fact, it paralyses a lot of people. (and why is that??<\/em>)<\/p>\n

So: I write for those who can’t, don’t, won’t. I write to be a voice for others, as my beloved mentor poet Carolyn Forch\u00e9 <\/a>said, a ‘witness.’ I write everything from letters of recommendation — an art form someone should acknowledge! — to blog posts. \ud83d\ude42 I write poetry, non-fiction, lesson plans, book reviews, eulogies, emails of consolation, thank-you notes and lists and political rants & manifestos. I write alot<\/em>.<\/p>\n

I write about women, mostly. But also men — after all, I’m happily married to one for decades, and the mother & aunt of several others. Not to mention dear friends, my father, my uncles. I write about all of us, our tattered beginner’s hearts.<\/p>\n

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I guess I write the way I try to breathe, when things hurt: in tonglen<\/em><\/a>. Focus on what hurts, and breathe for those who share that pain. Make it easier, by sharing, taking to ourselves what is wrong, and trying to send out love.<\/p>\n

It sounds sooo hokey! But that is<\/em> why, I’ve come to realise, I write. Particularly this blog. I write for all of us who often can’t (including, paradoxically, my own self). When I have no words for what I’m feeling, I can write about someone else, or the birds outside the window, or today’s horrific battle w\/ grapevine (I think it’s winning… \ud83d\ude41 ). And through that, I come to peace.<\/p>\n

How cool is that? And isn’t that what practice is all about, anyway?<\/p>\n

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