{"id":7843,"date":"2014-01-30T12:27:36","date_gmt":"2014-01-30T17:27:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=7843"},"modified":"2014-01-30T12:27:36","modified_gmt":"2014-01-30T17:27:36","slug":"30-days-of-love-cleaning-out-drawers-and-lightening-the-load","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2014\/01\/30-days-of-love-cleaning-out-drawers-and-lightening-the-load.html","title":{"rendered":"30 Days of Love: cleaning out drawers and lightening the load"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"cooking<\/a>I love to cook. And I love tools. Ergo, I have a LOT of cooking stuff. Cram-jammed drawers full. The same goes for coffee paraphenalia, tea accessories, and various things I no longer even recognise.<\/p>\n

Not good. I have to dig through random junk every time I want something.<\/p>\n

So today, while my husband took care of an errand, I took my freshly cleaned up self to the 1st drawer, and began divestiture. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

First I dumped everything out of the first drawer, the one I use daily. It held two mesh teapot spout protectors (neither of which I’ve used in years), various mismatched sterling teaspoons, my mother’s WWII dark steel espresso spoons, coffee canister filters, a tiger-in-a-sparkle-tutu butter spreader (don’t ask), and mason jar lids, rubber bands, twist-ties, ad infinitum nauseaum<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Wow. Who knew one drawer could even HOLD that much junk?? \"kitchen<\/a><\/p>\n

Then I washed out the drawer, which immediately made me feel better. Cleaning does that to the women in my family (and even some of the men). After that? I washed the drawer organisers, and then began sifting\/ sorting\/ putting in piles. Pile A: for my sisters or nieces (stuff that’s good, but I have more than one). Pile B: stuff to keep. Pile C: otherwise known as the trash bin.<\/p>\n

The drawer looked so good after I put pile B back in, that I started drawer 2!<\/p>\n

And yep: there are myriad applications to beginner’s heart here. As well as 30 Days of Love<\/a>. What if we regularly — at least as often as we clean out drawers, and do deep cleaning of our houses\/ apartments\/ studies, offices — threw out old habits? Threw out old prejudices that we are trying to outgrow?<\/p>\n

What if we only kept what was really USEFUL? Love, compassion, kindness? Humour and intelligent action and a belief in each other? What if we gave away the things we have plenty of? Not merely $$ & \u00a2\u00a2, but time, support, our individual skills and talents…?<\/p>\n

It might well inspire us to re-examine all the places in our lives where we could lighten up.<\/p>\n

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