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\"image\"<\/a>\u00a0So — you’ve been notified: I just hit my Grinch wall. I am heartily SICK of cooking, cleaning, wrapping presents, and the whole shebang. I want to be on a beach SOMEWHERE WARM, w\/out ice bending my beloved trees to the point of pain. I want MORE SUNLIGHT. I want TO NOT BE CRANKY the day before it all starts up! (at least at our house)<\/p>\n

Grandmother would say I have wantin’ ways… She’d even say wantin’<\/i> instead of wanting, even though she taught school for years. Probably an echo of her own grandmother…<\/p>\n

I don’t really. I’m just tired. And kind of used up. It’s an easy place to get, if you’re not careful. Or if the weather conspires against us, and you get ACUTE cabin fever, aggravaged by your usual “I need more LIGHT!” winter doldrums.<\/p>\n

Waking up, I didn’t even want to get out of bed. The driveway is a solid sheet of ice, so going somewhere is like driving with a beginner’s permit. And all the stuff to eat is either leftovers I’m heartily sick of, or more cooking. Glurg.<\/p>\n

Now that I’ve TOTALLY depressed you with my first-world problems ( \ud83d\ude42 ), I’ll tell you what I’m doing to fix things. Actually, what my beloved is doing to fix things .\"image\"<\/a><\/p>\n

He’s currently defrosting our car. And then he’s taking me to LUNCH! EVEN with the ice, the traffic, and my crankiness. How great is that?<\/p>\n

So here’s today thought: sometimes even beginner’s hearts need a rest. NOT a break. \ud83d\ude42 But just a moment when someone else does the whole love & caring thing. When you can just relax and be what you are, that moment. It’s part of what meditation & Buddhism teach you now:\u00a0be here, now.<\/em> This crankiness is who I am right now — exhausted, and worried I won’t be back to my (relatively cheerful) normal self when my kids & grandson arrive this weekend. So far, I’ve managed to only put love into what I’ve done for the holiday prep. I don’t WANT those preparations to become irritating, or to infuse crankiness into what I’m doing.<\/p>\n

Hence, as my younger son would say, I’m on holiday strike today. I’m being who I am right now. And luckily? I have the best beloved in the universe to indulge & comfort me. I wish the same for each of you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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