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Doug Savage, savagechickens.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Some days just suck. They may even start well — today did. Soft blowy morning, a chance to write a grant for a project dear to my heart. Great salad already\u00a0 made for lunch, and a bird w\/ a teasingly unfamiliar song in the next yard over.<\/p>\n

Then it all began to unravel…<\/p>\n

An expired driver’s license, for someone who’s driving an average of 400 miles weekly (or more) is not something to put off. Especially when my birthday is in April :). So a trip to the license bureau. Wait in line 1\/2 an hour to find out that after 30 days, you need a birth certificate.<\/p>\n

A trip home ensues. Return to tag agent w\/ passport (acceptable on the website, it says) and ‘secondary’ ID. Nope — you have to drive this several miles (7.8, to be exact) down the road.<\/p>\n

Waiting of three-ish hours<\/em> ensues. Nice lady, seems like \"\"<\/a>a happy ending is on the horizon. Then the detour: back to the original tag agent. This tag agent can’t issue licenses, only do the prep work.<\/p>\n

At the original tag agent, one very unflattering picture later, I’m issued a license. W\/ my first name, middle name and family name. My previous license had my first INITIAL, middle name and last name. A rather big deal, since under TSA guidelines, tickets must match your driver’s license. I have several air tickets for this summer. Each issued in the name on the now-expired, deeply missed driver’s license.<\/p>\n

Are you bored yet? There’s more! Apparently if you take in a passport, they re-issue your driver’s license NOT in the name on the old one (wouldn’t that be silly??<\/em>).\u00a0 Which means I either have to go back tomorrow and do it ALL over again, or pay hundreds of dollar$$ to have my air travel changed. I so love an avoidance\/ avoidance conflict!<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Please note: I don’t have many bad days. When I do, people tend to run :). I hope to overcome this tendency to blow like a whale surfacing as I grow deeper into beginner’s heart, but right now? Well, let’s just say I bring out the sailor tendencies in folks nearby ~ there she blows!<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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