{"id":7332,"date":"2013-11-12T13:50:41","date_gmt":"2013-11-12T18:50:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beginnersheart\/?p=7332"},"modified":"2013-11-12T13:50:41","modified_gmt":"2013-11-12T18:50:41","slug":"the-month-of-thanksgiving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2013\/11\/the-month-of-thanksgiving.html","title":{"rendered":"the month of Thanksgiving"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>During November &#8212; which I think of as the month of Thanksgiving &#8212; I give thanks each day for one of my many blessings. Today it&#8217;s my grandson, with whom I am (of course!) besotted.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beginnersheart\/files\/2013\/11\/image7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7335\" alt=\"image\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2013\/11\/image7-168x300.jpg\" width=\"168\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;m sure this is true of most (if not all) grandmothers. This makes my grandson no less miraculous to me. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Trinidad is a BIG blessing. But over the past several days I&#8217;ve also been grateful for other, more mundane things: the golden autumn light, the perfect fall weather Tulsa enjoyed for several unbroken days, my husband&#8217;s support for a month where I&#8217;m gone more than at home&#8230; And yet not one of these is really &#8216;ordinary.&#8217; Or mundane. And each happens daily. Kind of like winter snowflakes &#8212; no two blessings alike.<\/p>\n<p>People expect me to be grateful for such a healthy, happy baby. But the happiness I feel for Trin is only the tip of iceberg. It was hard for me to become pregnant w\/ his father &#8212; it took 3 years, including an operation. So I never take either of my sons &#8212; not Trin&#8217;s father nor his uncle &#8212; for granted.<\/p>\n<p>And every mother of sons knows how lucky you feel just to graduate them \u00a0&#8212; intact! &#8212; from high school Add a job with benefits to that? Whew!<\/p>\n<p>And then combine that with an amazing daughter-in-law, and then a brilliantly beautiful baby boy? All healthy? That&#8217;s the iceberg, isn&#8217;t it? That still leaves plenty of gratitude for the snowflakes, if that makes sense.<\/p>\n<p>So this month, as you count your many blessings &#8212; hopefully one each day &#8212; remember how they came to you. And be grateful for your snowflakes as well as your icebergs.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>During November &#8212; which I think of as the month of Thanksgiving &#8212; I give thanks each day for one of my many blessings. Today it&#8217;s my grandson, with whom I am (of course!) besotted. I&#8217;m sure this is true of most (if not all) grandmothers. 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