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\"CarolDeborah\"<\/a>Today we sent a box to my wonderful daughter-in-law. And the grandson she’s carrying. (We included a bar of chocolate for my elder son… \ud83d\ude42 )<\/p>\n

Inside the box were 2 blankets — one my mother-in-law made so many years ago for my\u00a0 son. Carefully embroidered w\/ slightly faded animals on white squares, surrounded by bright green gingham checks. Edged w\/ handkerchief-fold edging. The other a nursing blanket given by one of the many wonderful aunts who have mothered me over my life.<\/p>\n

The picture is of one — my Aunt Carol, who still lived at home when I was this toddler, and my mother & I moved back in w\/ my grandmother (& Carol) while my father went to one of his many wars.<\/p>\n

I am so very lucky in my mothers. My blue-haired old ladies — Grandma, Aunt Bonnie, Aunt Ina. My elder teachers: Grandmother Britton & Aunt Velma & Aunt Alene & Aunt Mary. The women who watched over me as I wrote: Fran & Ivy & Jerry. Women older (I still miss Ione…) & younger & older (Shelley & Joye & Pat & Soha) and … and … and. Friends & my sisters & all the women who have saved me from despair, from grief, from losing sight of who I am and can become.<\/p>\n

So moving up to Mother’s Day, I’m saying thank you. To the next round of mothers coming up (this is for you, Estrella). To the women who have mothered me throughout my life. And to the women who every day reach out to their friends, their children — born or chosen — and give them love.<\/p>\n

Happy Mother’s Day weekend! I love you ~<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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