{"id":4332,"date":"2012-09-09T17:17:31","date_gmt":"2012-09-09T21:17:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beginnersheart\/?p=4332"},"modified":"2012-09-09T17:17:31","modified_gmt":"2012-09-09T21:17:31","slug":"a-sunny-disposition-love-warmth-beginners-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2012\/09\/a-sunny-disposition-love-warmth-beginners-heart.html","title":{"rendered":"a ‘sunny’ disposition: love, warmth, & beginner’s heart ~"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>I absolutely adore sunlight. Don’t get me wrong: I also love rainy, foggy, and cool wet days. Not sleet, so much, or ice (especially on roads!). But the sunlight — it make me want to stretch out like a lizard on a flat rock and just bask…<\/p>\n

It’s no wonder, then, that to have a ‘sunny’ disposition is a compliment. No one made a song called ‘You are my thunderstorm,’ even in droughts…<\/p>\n

When I was a college student, my two old ladies — Grandma & Aunt Bonnie, who lived together only a few blocks from my dorm & later college apartments — used to call me their sunshine. “Here comes our sunshine!”<\/em> Aunt Bonnie would say when I came over (practically daily!). I loved them dearly; they were my lifeline while my parents lived overseas. I would sit in the tiny living room, on the scratchy horsehair sofa, and feel as though the room was full of sunshine. Not mine, but theirs ~<\/p>\n

Something there is about love: it warms almost physically, like the late\u00a0\"\"<\/a> fall sun on the deck this afternoon. I’m thinking that’s what it means to have a sunny disposition ~ to offer love easily, to all of those we meet. That kind of accepting, joyful love relaxes us the same way the September light leaves me drowsy & happy.<\/p>\n

I’d like to believe that Grandma & Aunt Bonnie could feel the heat of my love for them, as I felt warmed and comforted by theirs. I’d like to believe that I brought them as much happiness as they did me. But somehow, the love we take seems always more than what we feel we make…<\/p>\n

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