{"id":4232,"date":"2012-08-28T17:53:29","date_gmt":"2012-08-28T21:53:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beginnersheart\/?p=4232"},"modified":"2012-08-28T17:53:29","modified_gmt":"2012-08-28T21:53:29","slug":"teachers-bodhisattva-vows","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2012\/08\/teachers-bodhisattva-vows.html","title":{"rendered":"teachers & bodhisattva vows ~"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>A comment on an earlier post<\/a>, from Dasha, reminds me why teaching is so much more than test scores. Why the teacher may be, next to immediate family, the most important person in a child’s life. And why teachers are so often the nicest people I know.<\/p>\n

Dasha notes that her students can be annoying. For those of you who don’t teach, think about this: as a teacher you can’t have favourites. An you can’t just ignore the annoying kid. You don’t have that option. I want you to imagine a student who tries every bit of your patience. And you have them all year<\/em>. And, if you’re a good teacher — as far more are than aren’t — you have to try to help him or her.<\/p>\n

Think that the whiney person in the next office, who won’t shut up, shares waaaay too much personal info, and is a walking pig pen, is a pain? Try teaching math, or history, or Spanish to that person. Try reaching out, over & over again, to become friends. It’s not easy.<\/p>\n

And it doesn’t always work. But as Dasha notes, it’s so necessary. Parents are so busy. This isn’t new, although certainly two-career families, hard financial times, and just life make it seem even worse these days. A teacher who affirms a child (of any age), helps that child ‘find’ his or her voice? Such teachers are saints.\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Or, as Buddhists would say, bodhisattvas<\/em>. To become a teacher, and stay one — in the face of so much of today’s horrible PR — is to take the professional equivalent of the bodhisattva vow<\/a>, saying you’ll be there always. And today’s teachers — as you can see from Dasha shares with us — do just that. They’re in for the duration.<\/p>\n

I miss teaching. I miss talking about writing, and hearing from students, and loving them. But the part that I really miss? The hard lessons I learn from what it takes out of me. The part you hear loud & clear in Dasha’s story ~<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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