{"id":1664,"date":"2011-09-19T12:27:52","date_gmt":"2011-09-19T16:27:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/beginnersheart\/?p=1664"},"modified":"2011-09-19T12:27:52","modified_gmt":"2011-09-19T16:27:52","slug":"tea-beginners-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2011\/09\/tea-beginners-heart.html","title":{"rendered":"tea & beginner’s heart ~"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>In my next life, should I have one, I’m willing to come back as tea. A nice, comforting China black, preferably. Keemuns — Hao Ya<\/a> — Panyangs <\/a>— even a Muscatel-fragranced Darjeeling, although I like milk and raw sugar in my tea, usually.<\/p>\n

Tea is the perfect metaphor for beginner’s heart. It doesn’t ask anything of you, comforts and lifts, is there whenever you need it. Unlike coffee, it doesn’t jazz you — just a gentle kind of awakening, like the effervescence of good conversation. And unlike alcohol, it can’t be abused. Can never really harm you…<\/p>\n

Today, as I made my Panyang Congou, brewed it in a pot bought in another lifetime, poured it out into a cup given me more than 20 years ago<\/em>, I thought of what I’ve learned from tea. Of the cultures that revere it, built empires on it, drink it w\/ every meal.\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

I thought of drinking mint tea from tiny glasses rimmed in gold, sweetened almost to syrup, w\/ women who spoke no English, but who had become dear friends. I remembered how we grew closer as we sipped the scalding hot tea, taking turns telling stories in French. And there were women who sat at my table for 8 years, weaving our lives together over pots of strong black tea, sweetened w\/ rough-cut cubes of raw sugar, lightened w\/ milk. There was the sweet ice tea of my two grandmothers, the thin jasmine tea of my childhood, the milky cambric tea<\/a>\u00a0 my sons drank as young children…<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Sometimes there were treats — cookies, cupcakes, the honey sweets of North Africa, the pies and cobblers of Oklahoma. For my children I would make vanilla bread with chocolate butter. Now, I buy chocolate cherry\u00a0 bread for my grandnieces and grandnephew. And they eat it as they drink from their tiny cups of cambric tea.<\/p>\n

Each of these was perfect for the time, the setting, the friends and family with whom I shared them. I want to be more like this ~ able to meet my friends, my family, the world, where they are. Offering what they need. With love, warmth and a bit of elegance. Cookies would be nice, too.<\/p>\n

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