{"id":10983,"date":"2015-11-03T11:00:24","date_gmt":"2015-11-03T16:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=10983"},"modified":"2015-11-03T11:00:24","modified_gmt":"2015-11-03T16:00:24","slug":"traditions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2015\/11\/traditions.html","title":{"rendered":"tradition(s)"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_10984\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10984\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2015\/11\/image.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-10984\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2015\/11\/image-300x222.jpeg\" alt=\"the author's\" width=\"300\" height=\"222\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10984\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">the author&#8217;s<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>This Hallowe&#8217;en my grandson was a Ninja Turtle. Donatello, to be precise:\u00a0<i>Donnie, GiGi! <\/i>Wearing his Ninja Turtle pyjamas, wielding his formidable plastic sword, he wreaked cuteness on the neighbourhood. And expanded my always-growing beginner&#8217;s heart at least 2 sizes.<\/p>\n<p>His father AND his uncle were Ninja Turtles, more than 2 decades ago. Back when these two grown men were still blonde, still playing at who they might become. Now it&#8217;s Trin&#8217;s turn.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_10985\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10985\" style=\"width: 225px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2015\/11\/image1.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-10985\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2015\/11\/image1-225x300.jpeg\" alt=\"the author's\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10985\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">the author&#8217;s<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Hallowe&#8217;en has always been one of my favourite holidays, both as a child (what&#8217;s not to like about free candy??) and as an adult. Back when most children were &#8216;free-range,&#8217; I roamed the neighbourhood w\/ my girlfriends, trick-or-treating as a witch, as a hobo, as whatever I could concoct w\/ little help from my mother. It was before parents were so actively involved&#8230; \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>This year, my son &amp; DIL bought Trin all kinds of paraphenalia, which his besotted paternal grandparents (that would be us!) augmented w\/ a Ninja T hoodie, and a sword &amp; throwing stars. It was almost as much fun as the ensuing pictures!<\/p>\n<p>There is something deeply comforting about cycles. In our hurlyburly contemporary world, we don&#8217;t honour them nearly often enough. But watching my son&#8217;s face as he is thoroughly thwacked by a 2-year-old Ninja Turtle returns me to what seems such a short time ago. My beloved lay on the floor for a toddler to climb, just as my son does now for his son. And I listened then &#8212; as I did last night &#8212; while I did the things mothers &amp; grandmothers do: cleared the dinner table.<\/p>\n<p>Life is a recursive process, full of loops that return you to moments long past. And often &#8212; more often than not &#8212; that is a very good thing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This Hallowe&#8217;en my grandson was a Ninja Turtle. Donatello, to be precise:\u00a0Donnie, GiGi! Wearing his Ninja Turtle pyjamas, wielding his formidable plastic sword, he wreaked cuteness on the neighbourhood. And expanded my always-growing beginner&#8217;s heart at least 2 sizes. His father AND his uncle were Ninja Turtles, more than 2 decades ago. 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