{"id":10298,"date":"2015-04-28T14:11:09","date_gmt":"2015-04-28T18:11:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=10298"},"modified":"2015-04-28T14:11:09","modified_gmt":"2015-04-28T18:11:09","slug":"the-dark-threads-reprised","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2015\/04\/the-dark-threads-reprised.html","title":{"rendered":"the dark threads, reprised"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_10299\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10299\" style=\"width: 202px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2015\/04\/unicorn-tapestry.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-10299\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2015\/04\/unicorn-tapestry-202x300.jpg\" alt=\"via wikipedia\" width=\"202\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10299\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">via wikipedia<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I have a copy of this tapestry, one of my favourites. The idea that women made this &#8212; centuries ago &#8212; that they sat together for probably a decade (1495-1505), creating this thing of such intricate loveliness, among them? I&#8217;m awed.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m also awed\u00a0at how little light there is in the tapestry: the unicorn, the meadow\u00a0\u00a0flowers, a lighter shade for the woods of the fence &amp; tree trunk. Mostly? Dark threads.<\/p>\n<p>When I bought my copy, I was very young &#8212; mid-20s. I had to pay it for a year. And what I loved about it, of course, was the magical unicorn &#8212; glowing almost as if lit. Now, knowing far more about life and its dark places, I value how the dark threads allow the bright ones to gleam, to reach out to us.<\/p>\n<p>Of\u00a0<em>course<\/em> it&#8217;s a metaphor. Christians &amp; pagans both claim the unicorn, but I claim the balance between dark &amp; light threads. What Eastern thinkers term the balance between light &amp; darkness. Note that there are far more dark threads in my tapestry than there are bright ones; life&#8217;s often like that, isn&#8217;t it? But what we focus on &#8212; humans that we are &#8212; is the light.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s as it should be, ever optimistic be. \ud83d\ude42 But it does help, when things are their normal imperfect selves, to remember the ratio. And that w\/out the dark framework and background, the unicorn would disappear&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s still National Poetry Month. Here&#8217;s one of my very favourite poets, W.H. Auden, on the unicorn:<\/p>\n<p>New Year Letter<\/p>\n<p>~ W. H. Auden<\/p>\n<p>O unicorn among the cedars<br \/>\nTo whom no magic charm can lead us,<br \/>\nWhite childhood moving like a sigh<br \/>\nThrough the green woods unharmed in thy<br \/>\nSophisticated innocence<br \/>\nTo call thy true love to the dance&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a copy of this tapestry, one of my favourites. 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