{"id":10174,"date":"2015-03-30T19:09:03","date_gmt":"2015-03-30T23:09:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/?p=10174"},"modified":"2015-03-30T19:09:03","modified_gmt":"2015-03-30T23:09:03","slug":"the-zen-of-whatever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/2015\/03\/the-zen-of-whatever.html","title":{"rendered":"the Zen of whatever"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_10176\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10176\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2015\/03\/image14.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-10176 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2015\/03\/image14-300x144.jpg\" alt=\"the author's\" width=\"300\" height=\"144\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10176\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">the author&#8217;s<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I love to cook. At least most of the time. And when I&#8217;m happiest doing it &#8212; making something I like to eat, w\/out a deadline or people I worry won&#8217;t like it &#8212; cooking feels much like meditation. So does gardening, or making tea. I&#8217;ve never gotten to where washing dishes does this for me (despite what the beloved\u00a0Th\u00edch Nh\u1ea5t H\u1ea1nh says). I&#8217;m not good enough to make beauty out of chores. Although I&#8217;m hopeful&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Laundry, for instance: not the Zen. Nor vacuuming, nor making the bed. But weeding can be, and certainly writing or working in my journal are.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s an underlying music to everyday life, a kind of almost-audible melody that takes over when I&#8217;m immersed in the now of the action. If it&#8217;s cooking, this often happens as I crush garlic, or when I dice onions. If I&#8217;m making tea? The laying of the cloth, the warming &amp; filling of the pot &#8212; these become movements in some larger piece. Sometimes, I swear it sounds\u00a0like Pythagoras&#8217;s\u00a0music of the spheres.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_10180\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10180\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/beginnersheart\/files\/2015\/03\/grilled-asparagus-copy.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-10180\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/239\/2015\/03\/grilled-asparagus-copy-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"the author's\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10180\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">the author&#8217;s<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I wish I could reach this state of mind more easily, and w\/ forethought. For now, I&#8217;m happy when it finds me, as it did when I was making the marinade for chicken yesterday. Or even making a salad for lunch: what will I add? My mother&#8217;s salads were legendary. She added all kinds of things, but they were always wonderful. Radishes, cucumbers, green onions, shredded carrots. Lemon juice to brighten it all, paprika to add a fuller flavour. I try to follow her apron strings. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do, if you do it with good intention and mindfulness, I think it becomes a kind of meditation. A way to tune in to this moment, this\u00a0<em>now<\/em>. Even if it&#8217;s dicing green onions, or slicing lemons. Maybe especially lemons; they smell so good!<\/p>\n<p>Seriously &#8212; what is it you love to do that absorbs you? What makes you happy in the simple doing? Next time you&#8217;re stressed? Make time for it. You (&amp; everyone around you!) will be the happier for it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I love to cook. At least most of the time. 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