{"id":663,"date":"2017-09-17T13:52:26","date_gmt":"2017-09-17T13:52:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/becausethisisyourlife\/?p=663"},"modified":"2017-09-17T13:52:35","modified_gmt":"2017-09-17T13:52:35","slug":"3-dangerous-words-hold-people-back-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/becausethisisyourlife\/2017\/09\/3-dangerous-words-hold-people-back-2.html","title":{"rendered":"The 3 Most Dangerous Words That Hold People Back?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s something that you do 24 hours a day that you probably were not fully aware of until now.<\/p>\n<p>Along with that you were most likely not aware of the many different ways that you do this.<\/p>\n<p>What I&#8217;m referring to is the fact that you are talking 24 hrs a day, whether it is to yourself, to others, or through your thoughts and dreams.<\/p>\n<p>Of course while you&#8217;re doing this you are verbalizing in some way thousands and thousands of different words and phrases.<\/p>\n<p>Out of all these words and phrases there are certain ones that it&#8217;s important to be aware of because they may be keeping you stuck in some way&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And even others are outright dangerous.<\/p>\n<p>This brings up what I&#8217;ll be speaking about today and that is:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The 3 most dangerous words that hold people back&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>What is so interesting about these 3 most dangerous words is that we use them on a regular basis and in many different situations.<\/p>\n<p>While these 3 words may seem harmless on the surface, in many situations in the different areas of your life they are dangerous and most people are not even aware of it.<\/p>\n<p>If fact, when most people use these 3 words they actually think it is helping them, especially in situations that have to do with living the type of life they&#8217;d love to live.<\/p>\n<p>The 3 most dangerous words that hold people back are&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know that&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s take a deeper look at this and what you can do to overcome it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Mind games<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve done this many times. I&#8217;ve done this many times. We&#8217;ve all done this many times. Take a look throughout your life and you&#8217;ll see this. You bought a book and started reading it or had someone give you advice or heard someone do a speech. Perhaps you even have others promote their products and programs to you and the same things occurred there as well.<\/p>\n<p>And then what happened?<\/p>\n<p>You listened to or read the information presented and many times said either to yourself or someone else, &#8220;I know that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you also said, &#8220;I&#8217;ve read that&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;ve seen that&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;ve heard that a million times.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>What did you do after you said, &#8220;I know that&#8221;, &#8220;I&#8217;ve seen that&#8221;, &#8220;I&#8217;ve read that&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;ve heard that a million times?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In all probability you didn&#8217;t continue any further and went on to something else.<\/p>\n<p>Just know that this is a trap your mind is playing on you and it does so through the 3 most dangerous words&#8230; &#8220;I know that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Also be aware that your mind will use other variations of this such as, &#8220;I&#8217;ve seen that&#8221;, &#8220;I&#8217;ve read that&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;ve heard that a million times.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>No matter what game your mind is playing with you, the bottom line is that these 3 words are dangerous and will hold you back.<\/p>\n<p>So what can you do about it?<\/p>\n<p>The first thing you do when you catch yourself saying, &#8220;I know that&#8221; is to question your mind and say, &#8220;do I really know that?&#8221; Your mind will say, &#8220;yes you know that&#8221; and then try and keep you stuck.<\/p>\n<p>This happens when you find yourself reading that book once (if you even read through it all) or listening to that interview of someone speaking once, and then you&#8217;ll go on and look for something else and claim what you tried didn&#8217;t work, and you&#8217;ll continue to say, I know that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When you catch yourself saying, &#8220;I know that&#8221; ask yourself that question, &#8220;do I really know that?&#8221; This will challenge your mind but it will help you become more aware if you&#8217;re falling for this little game your mind is playing with you.<\/p>\n<p>After doing this if you still find yourself saying, &#8220;I know that&#8221; it&#8217;s time to ask another question.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Use your illusion<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The next question you would ask is, &#8220;If I know that, how am I using it right now in my life?&#8221; This will challenge you at first because your mind is being challenged. Your mind is trying to keep you stuck in this illusion because it craves the &#8220;new&#8221; and has a high tendency to want to reject &#8220;old&#8221; information or something it&#8217;s heard before.<\/p>\n<p>This is one of the reasons why many people will try something new, such as a product they just bought or advice they&#8217;ve heard from someone. And in the process of doing this, their mind will have them say those 3 dangerous words, &#8220;I know that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So by you saying, &#8220;If I know that, how am I using it right now in my life&#8221;, it gets you to become more aware of whether you really are applying what you&#8217;ve heard or read from someone, even if you claim that you already knew it.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you&#8217;re not doing it, you don&#8217;t know it&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s now take this to a higher level and transform your mindset (and your life) even further.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Better and best<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now that you&#8217;ve realized that you are &#8220;using it&#8221; in your life right now, ask yourself the question, &#8220;How can I use it better in my life?&#8221; Let me give you an example.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s say you come across someone giving a talk on how to become financially free. As you listen, you may find yourself saying, &#8220;I know that, I&#8217;ve heard people say this stuff before.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Before going any further you would ask yourself, &#8220;do I really know that?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself continuing to say and think that you know that, then ask yourself,<br \/>\n&#8220;If I know and have already heard that, where have I applied or am using in my life what this person is saying about becoming financially free?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This will get you to think and in the process help you break free of being trapped by the 3 most dangerous words.<\/p>\n<p>Then after you answer that question ask, &#8220;How can I use the information this person is saying about becoming financially free&#8230;how can I use it better in my life?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>By answering this question, you&#8217;ll be able to expand on what you&#8217;re learning and come up with your own unique way of applying the information.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you&#8217;ll also start coming up with your own ideas that could very well lead to many of the opportunities you&#8217;d love to attract into your life.<\/p>\n<p>By overcoming the 3 most dangerous words, you&#8217;ll be able to tap into your inner genius and brilliance. As a result, you&#8217;ll get that one life transforming idea &#8220;pop&#8221; into your mind.<\/p>\n<p>This will also allow you to come from your heart, which is where you&#8217;ll discover the magnificence of who you are.<\/p>\n<p>Always remember&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You are not your mind, you are your heart, and just know that HEART stands for:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Healing Energy Always Resonates Truth&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And the truth is that you are an amazing person with so much to offer the world.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s something that you do 24 hours a day that you probably were not fully aware of until now. Along with that you were most likely not aware of the many different ways that you do this. 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