{"id":580,"date":"2017-02-05T23:34:25","date_gmt":"2017-02-05T23:34:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/becausethisisyourlife\/?p=580"},"modified":"2017-02-05T23:34:32","modified_gmt":"2017-02-05T23:34:32","slug":"can-bring-tradition-back-life-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/becausethisisyourlife\/2017\/02\/can-bring-tradition-back-life-3.html","title":{"rendered":"How Can You Bring The Tradition Back To Your Life?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There were three of them.<\/p>\n<p>And even though they&#8217;re still physically standing&#8230;they&#8217;re gone.<\/p>\n<p>When there&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It was a place families brought their children&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>A place that brought a community together&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>A place that had what sounded like an air raid siren go off at 6pm every night&#8230;still to this day.<\/p>\n<p>And a place that is today missed by those who lived there.<\/p>\n<p>What I&#8217;m talking about are the baseball fields that I used to play little league baseball on.<\/p>\n<p>In fact&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re the fields that all the kids who lived in my housing development where I grew up played baseball on&#8230;but no more.<\/p>\n<p>I just recently found out that the Madison Park Little League is long gone. It was taken over by mostly people from out of town&#8230;who did away with the little league.<\/p>\n<p>And with it a tradition that was started back in 1955.<\/p>\n<p>After I heard about this&#8230;I was surprised&#8230;because here you have a housing development of a little over 700 houses&#8230;that has its own church&#8230;.it&#8217;s own elementary school&#8230;it&#8217;s own first aid rescue&#8230;it&#8217;s own fire department&#8230;and it&#8217;s own little league.<\/p>\n<p>Yet&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The church was refurbished&#8230;as was the elementary school&#8230;the fire department next to the baseball fields is still there&#8230;but the little league was let go.<\/p>\n<p>And all of this had me thinking about keeping the tradition alive&#8230;not just with the little league I played 6 years in that&#8217;s no more&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But with life in general.<\/p>\n<p>With these thoughts the question that came up was&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>How can you bring the tradition back to your life?<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Taking over or taking under<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There was an annual tradition that took place with the little league every May. It was a parade that took place on opening day. It started at the church, which was 2 blocks from where I lived, and went all the way to the baseball fields&#8230;about one mile away.<\/p>\n<p>This was a tradition that brought out the kids, their families, and even the people out of their house to watch on.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you were interested in little league baseball or not, it still brought together the community on that day.<\/p>\n<p>Now I know this may sound like some local thing. However, it still involved a tradition of a close knit community.<\/p>\n<p>Think about your own life.<\/p>\n<p>What is it in your life that has this type of tradition. It doesn&#8217;t need to be something that has to do with little league baseball. It can be something in your own town, a social club you belong to, your career, or perhaps seasonal events you love going to.<\/p>\n<p>Also&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself, &#8220;how much of the tradition is still alive in these for me&#8230;how much of that tradition can we keep while at the same time moving forward?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>See&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need to get rid of an entire tradition of something. It&#8217;s a matter of taking over whatever it is you&#8217;d love to keep alive, while at the same time keeping it fresh and moving forward&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Because it&#8217;s either that or you&#8217;ll have someone else come in and take it over.<\/p>\n<p>This is what happened with the Madison Park Little League.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s the same thing that will happen in any area of your life that you don&#8217;t empower.<\/p>\n<p>I mentioned change a moment ago.<\/p>\n<p>This is certainly important.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time it&#8217;s important to preserve the history because without the history how can you even allow anything&#8230;to include yourself&#8230;to evolve and grow?<\/p>\n<p>Realize this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Those who come in and take over, many times do so while in the process &#8220;wiping out&#8221; any remnants of the past&#8230;the history&#8230;of what made something special in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s understandable at times why someone would do this&#8230;however at the same time it still goes back to what got you there&#8230;the history.<\/p>\n<p>And this is all about keeping the tradition alive.<\/p>\n<p>As it relates to your life&#8230;the same thing&#8230;which leads into why you&#8217;d want to do this.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Fields of dreams<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The last time I was at my old little league baseball fields was back on January 6, 2012. On this particular day I took a walk on to the main field&#8230;which seemed quiet and desolate.<\/p>\n<p>However&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It also seemed alive&#8230;especially when you consider what I was thinking about while walking across that field.<\/p>\n<p>I remembered the baseball games I played there back when I was 11 and 12. I still remember some of the plays&#8230;the one All Star game I played in&#8230;the coaches&#8230;the kids I met&#8230;the friends that were made.<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It also brought to mind some of the traditions&#8230;such as the concession stand right behind home plate&#8230;which is still there in structure&#8230;but gone in function. When in function it served as the place where we would get sodas and candy.<\/p>\n<p>It also served as a place where some of the moms would volunteer and help out&#8230;which added more to the tradition of what this little league brought to a community.<\/p>\n<p>And yes, the firehouse with it&#8217;s daily 6pm air raid type siren is still there.<\/p>\n<p>See, back then the kids didn&#8217;t need the cell phones or text messages as a reminder to get home for dinner&#8230;we had the 6pm siren&#8230;the same siren that was deafening if you happened to be the team playing at 6pm that night.<\/p>\n<p>What also came to mind while walking across these fields were the dreams that kids have of being a baseball player.<\/p>\n<p>To most that would never happen.<\/p>\n<p>However&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It still gave a young kid reason to believe that it could. And even if it didn&#8217;t turn out to be baseball, it still gave an opportunity for a kid to believe in doing something that&#8217;s most important to them&#8230;something that&#8217;s near and dear to their heart.<\/p>\n<p>Now even though the little league is gone, the fields do remain. So whether it&#8217;s the Madison Park baseball fields or something that&#8217;s near and dear to you&#8230;it&#8217;s still a matter of keeping that dream you have alive&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And especially to give thanks to those people and places during the course of your life that served as a stepping stone for you.<\/p>\n<p>In my case it was playing little league baseball&#8230;which led to getting involved in fitness&#8230;which led to meeting certain people that become my friends&#8230;.which led to moving to certain places&#8230;which led to what I love doing today.<\/p>\n<p>The same is true for you.<\/p>\n<p>The difference is&#8230;what was your field of dreams? What is still your field of dreams?<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. The ballgame of life<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Another one of my favorite quotes is fitting right now&#8230;which happens to tie in with this entire &#8220;balanced tradition.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>First the quote&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The more things change the more they stay the same.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This ties in nicely with keeping the tradition alive in your life because it gives you perspective on how to incorporate the &#8220;old&#8221; which allows for the &#8220;new&#8221; to take place in your life.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s obvious that we as humans crave the &#8220;new&#8221; and it makes perfect sense&#8230;because who wants to remain stale and stagnant&#8230;right?<\/p>\n<p>Yet&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>At the same time you also want to preserve some of that &#8220;old&#8221; which has been part of your life&#8217;s journey&#8230;because without that how could you possibly evolve and grow?<\/p>\n<p>This now brings up how the quote I just mentioned ties in with having &#8220;balanced tradition&#8221;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And it has to do with something that&#8217;s familiar to you&#8230;the &#8220;good old days&#8221; mentality.<\/p>\n<p>How many times have you said or heard someone say, &#8220;I wish it was like the good old days?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s interesting&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Because the same people who are craving the &#8220;new&#8221; and fresh while saying, &#8220;oh that was the past&#8221; are the same people who frequently wish it was the good old days.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Even more interesting&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Both of these are needed to some degree in keeping your tradition of life alive.<\/p>\n<p>Remember&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Whether you&#8217;re talking about today&#8230;the present&#8230;or yesterday&#8230;the good old days&#8230;each still has an equal amount of benefits and drawbacks&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Each still has the supports and challenges&#8230;the pleasures and pains&#8230;the things you like and dislike.<\/p>\n<p>The only difference&#8230;the way they tie in to what&#8217;s most important to you.<\/p>\n<p>I like calling this your &#8220;ballgame of life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And in your ballgame of life you have a mission of what you&#8217;d love to be, do, and have.<\/p>\n<p>Included in your mission are those both sides of life that you, I, and every human being faces day in and day out.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s what makes you who you are.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s what tests your will to see if you&#8217;re living according to what&#8217;s most important to you.<\/p>\n<p>It also gets you to get in touch with what your intentions are.<\/p>\n<p>And whether those intentions are to bring the tradition of little league baseball back to a community&#8230;or to keep certain traditions within your own family&#8230;among your friends&#8230;within your business&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Or whatever it is that inspires you most&#8230;one thing remains the same&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It comes from the uniqueness of who you are&#8230;along with the value you contribute that serves others and humanity.<\/p>\n<p>Also&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It involves bringing the history into the inspiring mystery of moving forward.<\/p>\n<p>Remember&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You never have to give up who you are or what you believe in to make an inspiring impact in the world.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a matter of honoring the magnificence of you&#8230;while bring out the magnificence of others&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And in the process you form a new tradition in your life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There were three of them. 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