{"id":219,"date":"2014-08-31T21:51:21","date_gmt":"2014-08-31T21:51:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/becausethisisyourlife\/?p=219"},"modified":"2014-08-31T21:51:21","modified_gmt":"2014-08-31T21:51:21","slug":"where-do-you-call-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/becausethisisyourlife\/2014\/08\/where-do-you-call-home.html","title":{"rendered":"Where Do You Call Home?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It was all too familiar.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it went well&#8230;sometimes it didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>At times there was jumping for joy&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Other times it was dreaded like the plague.<\/p>\n<p>And on a rare occasion&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It was a little bit of each.<\/p>\n<p>These were the entire range of feelings I&#8217;ve experience during my life when it came time to moving.<\/p>\n<p>From the time I was born until the age of 11 we moved a total of ten times.<\/p>\n<p>Included in that was an astounding 5 moves (one from New Jersey to California and back) in a seven month period when I was 9&#8230;in which I attended 5 different schools within one year.<\/p>\n<p>At that point we finally settled down in Central New Jersey (Old Bridge) for the next 12 years.<\/p>\n<p>Why am I bringing this up&#8230;and what does it have to do with you?<\/p>\n<p>To start&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It involves where you call home.<\/p>\n<p>Where do you call home?<\/p>\n<p>Is it the neighborhood you grew up in? Is it where you live now? Was it the place you lived a few years ago?<\/p>\n<p>Or possibly&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Is it everywhere?<\/p>\n<p>Now as you&#8217;re sitting there reading this you&#8217;re probably thinking, &#8220;Yeah, there&#8217;s that one place I call home but what does Chaney mean by it possibly being everywhere?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How can this help me in my life?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>All this talk about where you call home reminds me of the saying, &#8220;home is where your heart is.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I remember my mother having one of those pictures hanging on the wall&#8230;a picture of a house&#8230;and a little sign saying &#8220;Home Is Where Your Heart Is.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>At first I saw it as the actual home you live in&#8230;which is true.<\/p>\n<p>Then I began to see a bigger picture of it all.<\/p>\n<p>And as simple as this saying sounds it is profound as it relates to your life.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because when you&#8217;re living life from your heart you can look at wherever you&#8217;re at as being &#8220;home&#8221; in some way.<\/p>\n<p>Yes&#8230;they&#8217;ll still be that one place that is your &#8220;home&#8221;&#8230;your main residence.<\/p>\n<p>However&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>By seeing that &#8220;home is where your heart is&#8221; you&#8217;ll be able to see the entire world as your home.<\/p>\n<p>And when you take the time to look close enough&#8230;you&#8217;ll see it to be true.<\/p>\n<p>For example&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Think about any place you&#8217;ve been where you truly felt grateful&#8230;a place where you weren&#8217;t distracted&#8230;a moment in time when you truly felt fulfilled in your life.<\/p>\n<p>It could have been anywhere&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>A friend&#8217;s house&#8230;somewhere you visited for a few weeks&#8230;a school you attended&#8230;any place that was away from your &#8220;regular home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Wherever this was for you&#8230;did it still feel like home in some way?<\/p>\n<p>You see&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>When you are truly grateful for your life&#8212;to include the people, the places, and the situations you&#8217;ve been in&#8212;you&#8217;ll be coming from your heart.<\/p>\n<p>And when you do&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>No matter where you go&#8230;no matter who you&#8217;re around&#8230;or what situation you&#8217;ll find yourself in&#8230;you&#8217;ll feel like it&#8217;s &#8220;home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>All those times we moved early on in my life&#8230;each of those place served a purpose.<\/p>\n<p>And just so you know&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>All the moving around we did when I was younger&#8230;it wasn&#8217;t because &#8220;bad&#8221; things were going on&#8230;it was just one of &#8220;those things&#8221; where we moved a lot.<\/p>\n<p>And even back then I had some sense that every one of those places I lived in was &#8220;home.&#8221; In many ways I still see them as such.<\/p>\n<p>The reason I do is because each has contributed to my journey in life in some way&#8230;and has led me to what I love doing today.<\/p>\n<p>This is the point for you to realize&#8230;and why this is important to your life.<\/p>\n<p>When you see the world as your home you&#8217;ll see how each person, place, idea, and situation has served you on your life&#8217;s journey.<\/p>\n<p>Along with this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll won&#8217;t feel alone&#8230;or out of place.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll have the &#8220;inner knowing&#8221; that no matter where you are it&#8217;s a place you can call home.<\/p>\n<p>And just like every other home you&#8217;ll have the supports and challenges&#8230;the pleasures and pains&#8230;the happiness and sadness&#8230;the praise and criticisms&#8230;equally.<\/p>\n<p>This is healthy and part of your magnificent journey through life.<\/p>\n<p>Also&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a song called &#8220;Home Sweet Home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And part of the lyrics goes like this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m on my way<br \/>\nI&#8217;m on my way<br \/>\nHome sweet home<\/p>\n<p>Look at living your life as having things on your way&#8230;not in the way.<\/p>\n<p>The same is true for where you call home.<\/p>\n<p>Home is where your heart is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And it is in your heart that the magnificence and brilliance of who you are shines through for the entire world to see&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The world that is your home.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was all too familiar. 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